Turbulent Emotions

Sometimes as we grow older, we find it difficult to find new ways in which we can continue to change. We believe we are “finished” and continue past bad habits and manners of being. A video or picture can give us a jolting reminder of how we need to get back into shape. This post has a similar function in reminding me of ways in which I can improve my thoughts and actions! Thanks, Tiffany. I’m reblogging it in my blog.

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Response to the Daily Post Prompt: Flawed

What is your worst quality?


Emotions are powerful. They can fuel your motivation. They can help you connect with others. They can generate all sorts of good feelings.

However.

They can also drive you to want to hurt other people–to react and carry out spiteful actions, in order to hurt the other person for hurting you. In order to “get back” at them.

Cold shoulder. Because by refusing to be in that moment with you, I thought that you would feel regret and realize why it is that I am angry at you, and make amends on your own.

Storing up anger and pretending that everything is fine, until my breaking point. Angry words. Contemptuous glares. When I should have let it out as the small bursts they come in as, or remind myself that I blew the problem out of proportion.

Ignoring. Because I thought…

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My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

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  1. rogershipp's avatarrogershipp

    “Sometimes as we grow older, we find it difficult to find new ways in which we can continue to change” ,,, I am always finding new things that I would like to ‘tweak’ in me so that I can enjoy life a little more.

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    1. lifelessons's avatarlifelessons Post author

      I think it is the secret to remaining engaged in life. I went out with friends tonight and was really “courted” for the first time in a long time. It felt pretty good…even though I was missing out on blog time. ha.

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