May-December Marriage
Your insistence that I swallow three times between each bite
is just one small example of directives that incite.
All your protective rules that others find adorable,
on the receiving side of them quickly turns deplorable.
Whatever you may label them by your own nomenclature,
your “loving” rules are symptoms of extreme controlling nature.
So I’m galvanized to action. Since I’m tired of your caring,
I’m making a decision that’s both personal and daring.
I’m going out without you for a little drive alone
and I’m not taking my pager and I’m not taking my phone.
I might drive without a seatbelt and who knows what else I’ll do.
If I see some flowers by the road, I’ll stop and pick a few
without worrying about the fact a passerby might see
and park his car behind me and decide to kidnap me.
I will talk to every stranger and eat in greasy spoons,
drive out to the ocean and walk barefoot in the dunes
forgetting the sharp objects that might lurk beneath the sand,
neglecting to wear sunscreen and if I get deeply tanned,
I won’t worry about wrinkles or cancer or a burn.
All your careful rules for once I’m going to spurn.
I’m going to eat sugar and perhaps get round and fat,
enjoying all the broken rules involved in doing that!
If you treat me like a kid, then guess I’ll be a teen
and when you tell me what to do, I’ll stage a little scene.
I’ll get home when I want to and go out with whom I wish.
I’ll dine alone on Szechwan food and order every dish.
When you ask when I’ll get home, I’ll shrug and say “Whenever!”
And if you do not change your ways, the answer will be “Never!”
Prompts for the day are swallow, between, symptomatic, galvanize and adorable.
I love this, Judy! You may guess why… :-()
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Was your husband older? Mine was 16 years older but this poem is not about him. He never pulled the age thing, as a matter of fact I think he felt younger than me!
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Yes that is the point~!
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Loved the poem, BUT question the subject~! So what does age have to do with it~? From experience; a May – December marriage seems to bother other people, (none of their damn business), much more than it causes problems with a very happy couple involved in it~! I have seen such as you described with teen age marriages where neither are matured (read experienced) enough to settle down and devote their life to each other, looking for happiness within~!
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Haha! That’ll show them.
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Love this! It say so much.
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“If you treat me like a kid, then guess I’ll be a teen
and when you tell me what to do, I’ll stage a little scene.”
Hahahahaha! XD
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Amazing! Is this an actual couple that you’ve observed?
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No. All fiction.
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Missy has some temper! Love this.
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