Bothersome Friends
I can’t be bothered caring about the way I dress.
I wear my clothes in wrinkles and my hairdo is a mess.
I don’t file my ragged nails. My cuticles are snaggy,
and please don’t bother telling me my pants seat is too baggy.
The only thing that bothers me is folks who are persnickety––
who adjust my collar, smooth my tie or pick at me.
If only they’d leave me alone to be who I am.
Why obsess about my looks when I don’t give a damn?
The dVerse Poets prompt today is to write a “bother” poem. Image from Unsplash by Daniel Pascoa, used with permission.

mmm… I hope your friends are not really that finicky.
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No…Nor am I so down-at-heel.
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True friend won’t want you to change.
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You could have taken the words right out of my late husband’s mouth! 😀
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I channeled him for you, Sue…
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Haha, thank you 😁
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Having people do this is embarrassing and demeaning…
Unless it is out of courtesy, of course. . .
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I forgot to mention tucking a label into someone else’s neck, although I must admit to doing so once or twice..once, to a stranger. So what end of this poem am I on?
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What side really?
How did the strangers react? This will hint at what side you are…
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She thanked me. I’d do the same, actually.
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Does this help explain what side you are on?
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Nope.. Tucking in tags really isn’t picking. It’s just mild pushing…And, depends on the person doing the tucking, actually.
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Yes yes… I figure.
So why are you worried on what side you are on?
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I’m not.. I’m somewhere in the middle. I’m not necessarily the narrator of my poems. I adopt many guises!!! ;o)
Just answering questions as they are posed.
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Smart… that’s the art of poetry.
I recline my thoughts…
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A perfect Covid attitude
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Judy, your poem was so amusing to me – and I can so relate. Also –
I LOVE that word 😀
Yours,
David
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It’s a maiden aunt sort of word, isn’t it?
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😀
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There is nothing quite so beautiful as a truly broken give a damn.
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What an intriguing statement, John. A poem in itself.
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Oh my!!! I have those days, do I! This is pure delight, now straighten your collar.
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yes, ma’am.
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I’m callin’ this a double quadrille, and I like it! 🙂
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It is..Knew you’d catch it…
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The first one came out perfect the first time, without counting, but the second was 5 syllables long so had to trim it. Unfortunately, I trimmed the first one instead!!! Dumb dumb. So had to go back and figure it out again, then trim the second. Pays to keep a copy…
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Double quadrille double fun… Sometimes I wonder if a careless look like this hasn’t been carefully messed up.
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Ha.. I agree. It has been the fashion and continues to be for some.
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This is skillfully woven! I so admire the attitude in this one, Judy 🙂 a sincere friend would rather pay heed to the heart of the other rather than chipped or manicured nails 💝💝
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Ah well. The older I get the better this fits me.
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Ha…
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