Thanks, I always take great care in looking at old photos of people. A habit of questionable merit, but it often tells me a lot about the person being photographed and I sometimes think that I see things that others may have have missed, like how she dressed you, her home and the love of it. Your mom’s goal, if not her dream, in life was to be a good wife, mother, and role model.. She gave you that “almost smile”, and eyes but in a way I see a sadness. Seeing the magazines on the coffee table, even McCalls, and others show her pastime and dreams and that puppy snuggled behind her tells me a lot.. I bet she enjoyed hearing about your life and travels as this was a window into a hidden unrealized desire of hers. And like me, she took great comfort in that little dog, filling the vacancy of those who were gone.
If I missed that completely, don’t tell me about it because it is nice knowing her through my mind’s eye, even if it is through a few old photographs. SAM
On Tue, Aug 10, 2021 at 1:06 AM lifelessons – a blog by Judy Dykstra-Brown wrote:
> lifelessons posted: ” Home Song for My Mother Listening to our shadow. > Puppies, poems and popcorn the center of the house. ” >
I love looking for small details in photos. I agree that they reveal a lot. She did have a special bond with every animal that lived in our house: dogs, cats, birds, rabbits, even our pet racoon.
Aww, that’s beautiful.
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A beautifully penned and photographed tribute
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I love that picture of you and your mom. ❤️
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Beautiful tribute ❤️
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Thanks, I always take great care in looking at old photos of people. A habit of questionable merit, but it often tells me a lot about the person being photographed and I sometimes think that I see things that others may have have missed, like how she dressed you, her home and the love of it. Your mom’s goal, if not her dream, in life was to be a good wife, mother, and role model.. She gave you that “almost smile”, and eyes but in a way I see a sadness. Seeing the magazines on the coffee table, even McCalls, and others show her pastime and dreams and that puppy snuggled behind her tells me a lot.. I bet she enjoyed hearing about your life and travels as this was a window into a hidden unrealized desire of hers. And like me, she took great comfort in that little dog, filling the vacancy of those who were gone.
If I missed that completely, don’t tell me about it because it is nice knowing her through my mind’s eye, even if it is through a few old photographs. SAM
On Tue, Aug 10, 2021 at 1:06 AM lifelessons – a blog by Judy Dykstra-Brown wrote:
> lifelessons posted: ” Home Song for My Mother Listening to our shadow. > Puppies, poems and popcorn the center of the house. ” >
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I love looking for small details in photos. I agree that they reveal a lot. She did have a special bond with every animal that lived in our house: dogs, cats, birds, rabbits, even our pet racoon.
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This montage is a great tribute to your mom — and the first photo, of you and your mom, shows your love for each other.
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Thanks, Janet. That photo was actually taken at my wedding.
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I am so grateful for my parents. Didn’t ever realize it until long after I left home.
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Lovely. Talking about mothers’ advice to their daughter – I wrote an article about this recently Titled “Mothers’ advice for her daughters” – Feel free to check it out – https://authorjoannereed.net/a-mothers-wish-for-her-daughters/
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