Clarity?
I don’t really need a chip to know what you are thinking,
for when I ask, “Should I wear this?” your left eyelid starts blinking
like it does whenever you tell a little fib;
and I can tell your “It looks great!” sounds a little glib.
That’s how I know without a doubt you’re spinning a fine yarn;
and that, in fact, in this dress I must look wide as a barn.
If you say this dish is great but feed most to the dogs—
if you say I’m clever but you rarely read my blogs—
if you “want” to get together but we rarely do—
I’ve already read the clues to ascertain your view.
Yet, still I have the option to see the other side
and find a way to look at it that will preserve my pride.
Your eye might blink because a gnat got caught in it just now,
and so I do not really look as broad as any cow.
He just has a small appetite. Her eyesight might be failing.
She might be out of town and when she gets home from her sailing,
she’ll call me up and we will meet and have a laugh or two.
Without perfect clarity I get to choose my view
of believing what I want to in spite of what I’ve guessed.
When it comes to friendship, less clarity is best!
For RDP:Clarity

You are right, you know.
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Oh of course I know I’m always right, Dolly! ;o)
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Sure you are! 😻
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When it comes to day-to-day existence, less clarity is best.
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We agree again..except in the case of recipes.
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by that I mean that clarity works best when it comes to recipes.. not that we like different recipes, although perhaps we do…..
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I’ve been cooking so long I hardly do any recipes at all. 🙂 I agree, though. When I was trying to learn to make paint I could only get clear, straight-forward instruction from ChatGPT. That’s all I wanted.
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I cook like you do, actually.. just add things until it tastes and looks right.
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Exactly! 🙂
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“Without perfect clarity I get to choose my view
of believing what I want to in spite of what I’ve guessed.
When it comes to friendship, less clarity is best!”
Perfectly stated, Judy.
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Thanks, Lisa..Of course nothing is “writ in stone.”
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You’re welcome.
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This is a brilliant poem Judy. We do have to choice to believe what we want when it comes to friendship.
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Thanks, Sadje… xo
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You’re welcome ☺️
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Great poem–with a great ending.
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This is heavy duty and yet a fun philosophy at the same time. I take it you know this slippery eel.
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Nope…just toying with a possible truth!
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Love you and yr creativity
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Nice post ✉️
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