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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Meeting an Old Friend

With no time to wait for the prompt, please excuse this bit of sentimentality in lieu of following a prescribed theme today.  I’m still in Minnesota.  Yesterday we saw my older sister. Today we go for brunch with the childhood best friend of my sister–moved away from our small town over sixty years ago.  Impossible.

Meeting an Old Friend

Sixty years since you lived one block away.
In one hour we meet for brunch and memories.
Really my sister’s friend,
but in small towns, so devoid of much else to do,
people still living and moved away
become legends.
Your mother the nightclub singer
with the distinctive whistle that called you home
from behind trees and low in ditches at night,
the rest of us still caught in the thrlll of “ditch ‘em”–
our version of hide-and-seek.
I was the tag-a-long, the watcher
to your games of Tarzan
and the neighborhood plays
raising nickel-after-nickel for a memorial plaque
for the small boy killed from a fall from the tallest slippery slide.
That slide gone soon after, the plaque never installed,
as you were gone to a larger town
and voice lessons translating your pure high voice
to the more studied operatic perfection
of a sweet bottom in a tight girdle.
Still a small town girl at heart
now, all these years later,
you pull our somewhat
off-tune unschooled
voices to you
over years
and miles
to sing
the
old
school
song.

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/dp_prompt/nightmares/

Actually, as I am ready to walk out the door, today’s prompt to write about a nightmare came through.  Since I published a picture and short write-up of my childhood nightmare two days ago, I guess that qualifies.  You can read about it HERE. (Look for the picture of the bridge and the words below it.)

Riddle

A poet and a chiropodist walk into a bar. What do they have in common?

When 5 people have guessed via comments, I’ll give the answer.  Judy

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/dp_prompt/fill-in-the-blank/

Minnesota Wind

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es, I took pictures the whole way today.  And, my camera broke, so these are from my iPhone, which like the PC I was forced to learn how to use because of an equipment malfunction of my regular device.  Fate has a hand in my education.  Please click to enlarge these.

Love Song: Sunday Stills, The Letter “L”

I was as drawn in by their love songs as they were!  They brought me out of the house and into the street to try to find where the beautiful calls were coming from. (More)
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https://sundaystills.wordpress.com/2015/05/24/sunday-stills-the-next-challenge-the-letter-l-3/

What California Wouldn’t Give for a Day Like This!!!

Six hundred miles in driving rain and fog!  Needless to say, we were so relieved to roll into Sioux Falls after ten hours of hard driving.  This is what it looked like for the first hour or so:

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Actually, it was often worse than this…especially when trucks and cars passed, splashing a spray of water that totally covered our windshield and made it impossible to see.

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Can you see the horse far up on the hillside? Patti insisted it was a sculpture. I insisted it was a tree. We argued for minutes. It was a tree! Wish it had been clearer and I’d gotten a better picture.

There are 97 more pictures culled down from 300 or more that I took, but it is nearly 11 and Patti is already in bed and I know I’m disturbing her, even though I’m sealed up in the bathroom trying to post, so I’m going to try to find a few more pictures to post and I’ll leave them uploading overnight…Perhaps I can post them in the morning before we have to take off again.

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600 miles with no cruise control!!!

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I took dozens of photos of the windshield.  Finally gave up trying to pick my favorite.  Just eenie meenie minie moe!!!

DSC01618This old bridge over the Missouri River near Chamberlain, S.D., figures prominently in one of my recurrent childhood and teenage nightmares.  In it, I am driving over the bridge when the section of roadway in front of me falls away.  When I think about turning around, the one behind me falls away and I’m trapped.  To my knowledge, I stopped having this dream when I left home, but I remembered it again for the first time when I was 30.

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I’m actually sitting in the motel bathroom posting.  My sister is fast asleep and i should be also.  The 90 other pictures that escaped the delete button will have to wait for another day of fame…It’s bed for me, then another 1/2 day of driving tomorrow before we reach St. Paul.  I’ll catch up on my blog reading one day soon.  Sweet dreams or Good Morning to thee!!!

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Our reward for our hard day’s drive was pizza and wine and homemade beef jerky with friends Mick and Marilyn.  Lots of stories of growing up in Murdo traded between Mick and Patti and me .  Marilyn put up with us!!!

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Music is a mirror, not a map. Looking in it we may see what we are and what we were, but looking at someone else’s song as a prediction of our own future is like looking in a fun house mirror and believing it is reality. All representations are a fun fiction–a hope, a faulty remembrance.  If you want to know your future, just live it.

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Mix Tape” –-Put together a musical playlist of songs that describe your life, including what you hope your future entails. 

A Night Out in the West

Tomorrow my sister and I will start out to drive to Minnesota to see our older sister.  Tonight was our last night out on the town, so thought I’d bring you along with us to see a bit of how Sheridan, Wyomingites do things.

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Dinner at the Rib and Chop House. Cowboy sort of chow, for sure, as was evidenced by the well-hatted diners at the next table. Jim, minus cowboy hat, failed to fit the pattern as he (obviously) enjoyed his Long Island Iced Tea!

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This surreal scene was actually a kid’s meal served in an automobile at the next table.

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After dinner, a ride in the city park, where one local has started altering dead trees with a chain saw.

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New playground equipment makes me wish to be a kid again for just one slide down that tube side on a sheet of waxed paper!

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Something a stranger might drop jaw at is the herd of buffalo. The barn  below is where they seek shelter during snow storms and other inclement weather. Cushy life on the range. There is actually a huge fenced-in  hilltop a few city blocks in size where they are free to roam along with a herd of elk.

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Driving home, we saw this young deer dining on newly sprouted leaves of a neighbor’s trees. His herd of five had been at my sister’s house earlier this morning. Tonight, however, we didn’t see the pheasant I saw crossing the road yesterday.

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The Window

opens onto an empty lot.
Guamuchil trees and wild castor beans
rise from its slope to lift toward
where I sit above, hands engaged
in taking me away to a place
far beyond ideas.
It is that destination dreams only point us to–
that place where, perhaps, I’ll float
after the feared moment
when I’ll leave this world for good.

I dread it so, that zone,
and yet if what my fingers have just told is right,
it’s where I choose to go again and again,
escaping to that little house
down in my garden
where I keep my tools and paint
and ten thousand small objects
all of which have a particular place they want to be fastened.

I am just here to help them go where they want to go.
Where they have, perhaps, been created to go–
taking me with them to the zone,

all of us
headed toward
the inevitable.

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“The little house” is my studio, here seen from the garden. The earlier view was of the wild lot next door, seen from the window of my studio.

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A message from the zone. Click to enlarge, then hover over objects and click again to see more detail..

The Prompt: Tell us about your favorite way to get lost in a simple activity — running, chopping vegetables, folding laundry, whatever. What’s it like when you’re in  “The Zone?”

There is a special beauty in the broken,
as though established beauty is being reordered–
the predictable broken apart
and presented to us again,
assembled by a different hand.

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In response to The Daily Post’s weekly photo challenge: “Broken.”

The World in a Nutshell

The World in a Nutshell

The prompt today asks us to recommend one book that explains what humans are all about.  I would recommend The Story of Civilization, by  Will and Ariel Durant. It is an eleven-volume set of books (published between 1935 and 1975) covering Western history.  Unfortunately, they died before they could complete the series, but the history of future civilizations was in fact forecast in quotes from various volumes:

–(From Volume 1, The Near East: “For barbarism is always around civilization, amid it and beneath it, ready to engulf it by arms, or mass migration, or unchecked fertility. Barbarism is like the jungle; it never admits its defeat; it waits patiently for centuries to recover the territory it has lost.” (page 265)

–(From Volume 2, The Life of Greece: ”We have tried to show that the essential cause of the Roman conquest of Greece was the disintegration of Greek civilization from within. No great nation is ever conquered until it has destroyed itself.” (page 659)

–(From Volume 3. Caesar and Christ: ”If Rome had not engulfed so many men of alien blood in so brief a time, if she had passed all these newcomers through her schools instead of her slums, if she had treated them as men with a hundred potential excellences, if she had occasionally closed her gates to let assimilation catch up with infiltration, she might have gained new racial and literary vitality from the infusion, and might have remained a Roman Rome, the voice and citadel of the West.” (p. 366)

(Facts and quotes gleaned from Wikipedia, which gives a more comprehensive listing of volumes, themes and quotes.)

The Prompt: The friendly, English-speaking extraterrestrial you run into outside your house is asking you to recommend the one book, movie, or song that explains what humans are all about. What do you pick?https://dailypost.wordpress.com/dp_prompt/worldly-encounters/