Railroaded and Blended: Thirstless in a Bloodthirsty World, Sober in a Laughless One

Railroaded and Blended: Thirstless in a Bloodthirsty World, Sober in a Laughless One

Every day, our children are mesmerized by computer games where they hunt down and kill. TV shows go from violent to horrific—all echoing a world made increasingly more warlike as the war games of children grown into the war games of politicians and financiers who seek political and financial gain by first vilifying and then “going after” their enemies.

It is not my dreams, but rather my waking world that’s tortured by the bloodthirst of our world. At night, in my bed before sleeping, I fear for my own breathing and have to go outside for the comfort of cool night moving air. That scene from “The Bridge” where a child is buried alive with water slowly filling his crypt—will not go away. I am stuffed to strangling with earth’s cruelty.

My dreams remain my own, so it is not sleep I fear, but rather that time before sleep when I release hold of my consciousness and let my mind drift into worlds I am half-conscious of. That’s when I give way to thoughts of my own death, jerking myself back from fears of what comes next.

I don’t share the world’s appetite for torture, violence, killing and revenge. I want to scream “Please! Stop!” and run in the opposite direction, for I can’t follow where the world’s mania leads us. And this is why, when a friend asked me to go to a movie with her and suggested “The Railway Man” with Colin Firth and Nicole Kidman, I pleaded for a chic flick instead. My uncle died in the death march on Bataan. I saw the “Bridge on the River Kwai,” “A Town Like Alice” and have read about how the real life and death of women prisoners of war was minimized by “Paradise Road.” I’ve read of the horrors of those Australian nurses marched into the sea and shot, the rapes, deprivation, starving and executions.

This is why I said, “No more!!!” when my friend asked me to see that particular movie, wherein former POW Colin Firth goes in search of one of his Japanese captors. This year I have read two books dealing with the tortures of the slave trade and two more about the Spanish inquisition. I simply cannot take any more tales of torture and man’s inhumanity to man, and so it was that I chose the movie “Blended” starring Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler and my friend agreed to attend this “light comedy” with me.

This is how we came to be sitting in a theater in Ajijic, Mexico, with approximately ten other viewers similarly misinformed as to the utter dross and simplistic humorlessness of this movie!!!!! (Suffice it to say that all tortures are not physical in this world.) This was the singularly worst movie I have ever seen in my life. I love Drew Barrymore and most of Adam Sandler, but the script and acting in this movie were horrible! Add to that the ridiculous slapstick of the sterotyped African Disneyland that passed as an African adventure. I would add “offended” to the other adjectives that describe my reaction to this movie: namely, “unamused, bored, sickened and amazed.” The children were obnoxious, the plot implausible, the African characters one-dimensional stereotyped farces. What was that African singing group that showed up at any given moment furnishing a (not-funny) Greek chorus effect during various mini-climaxes during the movie?  Not since the black-faced minstrel has such an offensive stereotype been presented.

I must admit that my friend loved the movie. She laughed throughout, and must have wondered why I sat unsmiling and laughless throughout the entire movie. There is a certain amount of insult in finding fault with a book or movie or TV show that someone else loves, and I felt like a Scrooge when I was asked how I liked the movie and had to admit I HATED IT! Fed up to the eyebrows with the violence and torture that seems to be increasingly necessary to hold our interest in both our media and games, it was I who had suggested we go to this movie instead, and perhaps I was forced to pay for my need to bury my head in the sand for a few hours.

Not wanting to be influenced by what I read, I have deliberately not gone to IMDB or Rotten Tomatoes to see whether the critics agree with my review of this horrible movie, but as I draw toward the end of my diatribe, I will now do so and be right back with some of their thoughts:

Rotten Tomatoes Review: “Lurching between slapstick and schmaltz without showing much of a commitment to either, Blended commits the rare Sandler sin of provoking little more than boredom.”

Washington Post, Stephanie Merry: Each sweet moment is inevitably punctuated by some in-your-face joke that’s at least as stupid as the preceding moments were heartfelt. Blended has other problems, too, including some faulty editing and a typically predictable finale.

Reel Views, James Berardinelli: “What’s missing from Blended? Two key ingredients: it doesn’t touch the heart and it doesn’t tickle the funny bone (at least not often enough). “

Entertainment Weekly, Jeff Labrecque: “In Blended, his (Sandler) comic flab has never felt as thick, and this hackneyed “family-friendly” entertainment feels less like a movie than a bad sit-com re-run.”

Portland Oregonian, Stephen Whitty: “He(Adam Sandler) plays it so low-key there’s nothing much for him to do, apart from the clueless-dad shtick and some awkward comedy.”

NY Times, A.O. Scott: “Most of Blended has the look and pacing of a three-camera sitcom filmed by a bunch of eighth graders and conceived by their less bright classmates. Shots don’t match. Jokes misfire. Gags that are visible from a mile away fail to deliver. “

Meta critic, B. Jackson: “I loved earlier comedies by this duo but this looks like they were here just for the paycheck. Also, based on the screenplay, the writers must have been working on a tight deadline for their high-school drama class.”

USA Today, Caludia Puig: “You have to work hard to make an African vacation seem unpleasant. And Adam Sandler nearly pulls it off in Blended.”

Not all critics hated this movie and some fans, including my friend, loved it. Having lived and traveled in Africa for years, I perhaps found the Africa scenes more insulting and deprecating than most. But this movie lost me long before it got to Africa!

The Prompt: When was the last time a movie, a book, or a television show left you cold despite all your friends (and/or all the critics) raving about it? What was it that made you go against the critical consensus?

16 thoughts on “Railroaded and Blended: Thirstless in a Bloodthirsty World, Sober in a Laughless One

  1. grieflessons Post author

    Even worse…She liked it, but I was the one who chose it! It is such a put-down to be a Scrooge about a movie someone else likes, but I was so offended by the portrayal of Africa that I couldn’t even feign a laugh to be a good sport. I just detested every element of this movie. (But perhaps you already knew that. Ha.) Thanks so much for commenting. It feels very good to know I’ve struck a chord. Judy


  2. john flanagan

    “I don’t share the world’s appetite for torture..”..and neither do i, Judy, but there’s little i can do about it except not watch and in the past year i can count on one hand the number of films i’ve bothered to watch. Violence is popular in both the virtual and the real world, more popular than peace it would seem. Where have we reached, what’s our level in 2014?
    Thank you, Judy, for a serious work on a worthwhile topic


  3. grieflessons Post author

    Thanks, John. I am beginning to think that TV has surpassed the movies in presenting worthwhile material. With the exception of indie films, there are not many films to get that excited about anymore. True, there is much violence in TV and inane plots, but at least there is still humor there and some gentleness and a few exceptional groundbreaking series. I admit that the world is hard enough and that I usually go to movies or TV for escape and enjoyment, but impossible to enjoy something not well-plotted, well-characterized and with some intellectual appeal, even if it is just “getting” the joke. I love film and TV—one big reason I don’t have cable or dish but just depend on Netflix and programs sent to me by a friend. Like potato chips, I can’t be trusted with having it around. I would probably just watch senselessly, one program after another, always choosing the least-offensive, least-bad show after what I meant to watch ended. Without TV, I can do the same viewing and writing blogs!!! Ha. At least active and not passive.


  4. kategresham

    One of my friends refuses to watch the news, reads only light escapism and generally shuts her eyes to reality. I prefer to read about the state of our world, I can do without the graphic images, but I think we have a responsibility to know. I also believe we have a responsibility to do whatever we can: writing letters to our politicians and to the papers, speaking out… Here I Australia we are beginning to organize to show our un-ease, unhappiness and refusal to accept some current policies.
    Having worked in schools I am literally terrified by the amount of violence children are exposed to. What will become of us?
    On the other hand we must remember the courageous, those who act and speak out and the everyday acts of compassion and kindness. We all have choices!
    Great post! Are you familiar with “The Philosophers Mail”?- the alternative news site begun by Alain de Botton? All is not lost!


    1. grieflessons Post author

      Everything you say is true. I know it is necessary to be informed but I think the news has become just another action/adventure gore fest. They repeat over and over and over and people become obsessed. The fixation on reality programs is just an extension of this. We have become so involved in observing the lives of others that we are forgetting to live our own lives! Life has become a spectator sport. I will check out the alternative news site you mention. Perhaps it is the solution. Thanks so much for reading and responding, Kate. Judy


  5. kategresham

    Reblogged this on katesclippings and commented:
    I have long worried about the amount of violence to which children are routinely exposed. I choose to never watch either violent or horror movies. My spirit doesn’t need them and they can certainly prey on my mind. Judy’s post speaks from the heart.


  6. Allenda Moriarty

    Yeccccchhh. Thanks for the warning. It sounds ghastly. I never have been much of an Adam Sandler fan, even dating back to when he was on SNL. I love Drew Barrymore, though so might have been tempted. I’ll save my time and money.


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  8. the_health_networker

    you never know what you get on movies chosen on a whim 🙂 but I don’t blame you I share your views on violence and on using children as plot to get the story going and also on the stories on scheming revenge and torture.
    you’re grandfather was in Bataan so is mine, he lived long enough for me to know him, hear his own account of the story and appreciate history from the heroes of our time 🙂


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