Who Knew?

Who Knew?

When new was new, I was crazy about it. A new friend, new dress, new favorite food. But what I liked best was new places. I yearned to travel, even if it was just to the next town. Strangely enough, as tiny as the towns were in my part of South Dakota, people from neighboring towns did not mix. We went rollerskating in Draper, 7 miles away, but when our eyes chanced to stray to Draper boys, we were taken aside by several of the “popular” Draper girls–the cheerleaders, in fact, and told to stay away from their boys. This really happened. We played their school in sports, went rollerskating every Sunday in their school gym, even went to movies in their tiny theater, but we did not mix. When we tried, we’d been warned.

I think I visited Presho, Vivian and Kennebec–all 20 to 40 miles away–no more than once in the 18 years I lived in Murdo, population 700. White River, 38 miles away, we more regularly visited since they had shows on Mondays as well as weekends, and the movies were just ten cents, whereas ours cost twenty-five cents! But, never did we ever socialize with White River girls. The boys, however, were a different matter.

The first boy I ever kissed was from White River, and we went steady for two years. I think I’ve told the story of that first kiss in another blog posting. Suffice it to say that after putting it off until age 16, it was about time. And, it worked. I was literally dizzy and he had to hold me up for a minute afterwards. He had opened my car door, helped me out, then folded me in his arms and kissed me. I was so discombobulated that instead of walking to my own car, I opened the back door of his car and started to get into the back seat. Not for the reasons you might think. My best friend and a boy who (as I recall) later turned to cattle rustling were already in the back seat. I just did so in utter confusion. And no, I had never had a drink in my life at the time.

At any rate, this story has veered off in a direction unintended, so just suffice it to say that after that, life continued to present new after new and I accepted most of them. I traveled widely, loved a few loves, pursued a few careers and wound up in Mexico. Now, at age 70, I suddenly find that new isn’t as necessary to me. The older I get, the more I realize that everything is everywhere. You just have to look for it closely.

No longer is it necessary for me to travel to far-off third world countries. It is exciting to take the same walk on the same beach day after day since the sea presents new treasures each day. I love getting up each morning and writing first thing, having Pepe come each Wednesday to give me a 1 1/2 hour massage after which I plop into the hot tub. I love spending hours at my desk and sometimes hate having to leave home even for activities I have enjoyed in the past.

The point is, that the older I get, the more I want to spend all my time doing what I love most. Writing. Art. The fact that each endeavor creates a new piece is getting to be enough “new.”

 

This is a rewrite of an essay I wrote so long ago that I only had one viewer.  If it was you, you must be one of my first followers! The prompt today is suddenly.

15 thoughts on “Who Knew?

  1. Christine Goodnough

    This is so true of a lot of us. I have enough “new” just reading new books and blog posts, though I sometimes venture onto “First Friday” if I want to see someone or something really new. Talk about stuck-in-the-mud! 🙂

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  2. lizMc

    “When new was new, I was crazy about it.” Love that! Perhaps when we recognize the horizon behind is so much further away than the horizon ahead, we find greater contentment with the here and now.

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  3. slmret

    As the child of a physician, I learned that it was important to get away from home on weekends. This engendered a lifelong desire to see new places, and I’ve traveled to 5 continents. At 77, I am just now beginning to enjoy staying at home, where even the familiar can be new again! Even now, getting into the fresh air is important and refreshing. I take the camera, but take fewer photos, as things are no longer so new. Suddenly ~ ~ ~ life continues!

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  4. Marilyn Armstrong

    Believe it or not, we had the same “our space” versus “your space,” but by blocks. OUR block were “us.” We didn’t mess with kids from OTHER blocks.

    I think you’re right. I’m pretty happy being in places I love and with people I care about. If I had the wherewithal, I wouldn’t mind seeing other places, but I don’t have much of a drive to go a’wandering.

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