I’ve always loved beards. When my husband Bob shaved his off as a surprise after 12 years of marriage, I didn’t recognize him when he met me at the door. I thought it was a friend of ours. We went out to a party that night and I introduced him to our friends, who had also never seen him without a beard, as my brother. No one caught on all night long until we started close-dancing. We got some strange looks before we finally admitted our little joke. He grew the beard back!!!
I love these photos of you and your Bob. Your love story reminds me of mine and my Bobs love story. Xoxo
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What a shock that must have been!
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It absolutely was. He didn’t seem like the same person.
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Ha brilliant. As a frequent beard grower I have been there myself and know the joys of going incognito after a shave
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I’ve had a boyfriend and a husband whom I had never seen without beards surprise me by appearing at the door fully shaved and in both cases I was less that pleased.
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Duly noted.
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Ha!!!!
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Haha brilliant…
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That’s what happened to me, too. I didn’t recognize my husband at all. Finally he said “I’m JEFF.” It was completely bizarre. I made him grow it back immediately!
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Me, too.
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When my wife first met me, I had a beard. We’d been married for about 35 years and, having never seen me clean-shaven, she asked me to shave it off, which I did. As soon as she saw me, she said, “Grow it back!”
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And what did you think of yourself beardless? Were you surprised at how you looked?
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I didn’t like it at all. I agreed with my wife: grow it back!
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Funny, my husband has had a trim, clean beard for 30 plus years, but I still don’t think of myself as a “beard” person!
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And yet it seems you are–at least in respect to him.
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Love the pictures. You guys are so young! Kevin shaved his mustache without telling me after we were together about 8 years. I totally freaked out. Couldn’t look at him for weeks. Didn’t realize so many others had a similar reaction!
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I felt superficial because it bothered me so much, but I, like you, had problems relating to Bob until he grew it back. I really did feel like he was a different person and I wanted the old one back.
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I have to share with you this comment by my friend Bruce, made on Facebook so it didn’t show up here:
Bruce Alan Horn: My parents used to tell the story of the first time I saw my father without a beard. I was about two and running in and out of the bathroom as he was shaving, talking to him all the while until he finished and rinsed his face off and I burst into tears at the sight of this complete stranger standing there where moments before my father had been.
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…..and… cute pictures. Can you tell with all my responses tonight that I’m getting caught up on my reading?
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I do that sometimes.. It’s cool.
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