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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Old-Fashioned Attention for MVB prompt, Aug 22, 2024

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Lunch Date

One thing I’d like that I will mention
is some old-fashioned attention.
The kind with no device in hand
is the kind that I can stand
better than the sort with texting—
minds caught in “before” and “next”ing—
and not a thought for whom you’re with
until I’m sure that it’s a myth
that I’m the one you want to see,
even though you have invited me.

For though our table is for two,
you bring so many more with you—
every relative and friend.
Your texts to them just never end.
Our tete a tete‘s become absurd.
I never get to speak a word!
Since I’ve discovered you’ve come to see
your smart phone as more smart than me,
there’s just one thing I’d like to state.
Please cancel our next luncheon date,
and the next time you desire a munch,
just take your iPhone out to lunch!

FOR MY VIVID BLOG PROMPT: OLD-FASHIONED

Hydrangeas for FOTD Aug 22, 2024

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We left the main road twice and circled around again to get these photos after seeing this group of flowers beside the road. The sun was livid due to fires which had leapt across two interstates and were burning vast areas between Casper and Buffalo, Wyoming. We were trying to figure out what the flowers were and closeup, decided they were hydreangeas, which I had never seen in this pointed configuration before. More photos to follow of other items of iterest nearby the flowers plus many more shots of this remarkable sunset.

For Cee’s FOTD Aug 22, 2024

“Honesty”

Honesty

Though I always tell it if I can,
of the brutal truth, I’m not a fan.
(It’s the brutal part that bothers me,
and not the actual honesty.)
In fact, let’s institute a pact
to exercise the utmost tact.
When telling others just what “is,”
be gentle, be they Sir or Ms;
for though it’s not right to be truthless,
there’s no excuse for being ruthless.

The Writer’s Workshop prompt for Aug 22 that I chose wa the word ‘Honest.” Image by Steve Sharp on

One Perfect Rose, For FOTD, Aug 21, 2024

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For Cee’s FOTD

Zinnia, for CFFC’s A Single Flower

For CFFC

For the MVB Prompt: Discernment, Aug 20, 2024

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Discernment

Borne, then born.
Clothed, fed, shorn.
Housed and cuddled,
brain filled and muddled.
Schooled, polished, allowed to roam,
to make the world into a home.
Later settled, now sedate.
Content to let my life abate.

Find worlds inside and there abide,
to let what happens be my guide.
To try to live with less precision.
To fear less the world’s derision.
Why so hard to be oneself?
Easier when on the shelf.
Now here I pull my world around me,
memories and dreams surround me.

My solitude a crystal jar
that lets me ponder from afar
the current of my life, its tide,
to reach without and pull inside
the things that help me try to see
just where my life has taken me.
I contemplate and sometimes share
the truths that I’ve discovered there.

I’ve  come to read, to judge  and learn.
I’ve finally learned how to discern!

The MVB Prompt today is Discernment.

Junkyard, for Pic and a Word Challenge 383: Detritus

Junkyard

It is a graveyard for lost toys
abandoned by their girls and boys—
objects of fun once ordinary,
spurned by children who are wary
of things on which to soar and slide,
of toys that draw a kid outside.

Once solely meant for entertainment,
they’re now fenced in for their containment
away from children set aside,
away from things to climb or ride
with other kids bare-faced, unmasked.
Now all are differently tasked.

Now housebound children stare at screens
or sit leafing through magazines.
Monkey bars, it is official,
turned into things more beneficial:
fences, barricades or bars
marking parking spots for cars.

But teeter-totters, slides and swings—
a community of cast-off things—
lie here abandoned in a place
that’s never seen a child’s face.
It is a junkyard overgrown
of pleasures that now go unknown.

The raucous crew for which they’re cast
has become a memory of the past.
Hordes of kids on jungle gyms
pursuing their communal whims
are things that they barely remember.
Leaf piles jumped on in September

neatly raked up in their heaps
are safe from children’s messy leaps.
Every child kept in their room,
the world outside would seal their doom.
So, junkyards filled with these diversions
are museums for today’s aversions.

One by one, the kids grow older
never getting one bit bolder.
Contained inside their separate lives,
Single cells replace their hives.
While hidden from this lonely crew
are all the things we used to do.

Remember when the school bell rang?

Kit and caboodle, the whole gang
would rush to see who got the swings.
What nostalgia their memory brings.
I remember them so well,
but especially the carousel.

 

For Pic and a Word Challenge 383

Silhouettes, For FOTD, Aug 20, 2024

 

More Succulents. This time Silhouettes.

For Cee’s FOTD

Succulent Arrangement, For FOTD Aug 19, 2024

I love this arrangement that was in the hall of Cypress Management in Sheridan, Wyoming. Gorgeous!!!

For FOTD

“Bent To My Will” for the dVerse Poets Challenge, Aug 19, 2024

 

Bent to My Will

Sometimes I feel it’s absurd
how I imprison every word––
take it from its family
to serve me on bended knee,
do my bidding, tell my tale,
imprisoned here in each poem’s jail
‘til other writers come along
purloining words in book or song.

For dVerse Poets Quadrille Challenge, the prompt is “Bend.”