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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

A Poem of Negation for dVerse Poets, Jan 23, 2025

Why I do not Ham on Rye it

You cannot borrow steal or buy it.
Sumo wrestlers never try it.
Female starlets do or die it.
Vitamin makers fortify it
You never cookie, cake or pie it.
Pizza parlors terrify it.
Now and then I me oh my it,
but I hope I don’t defy it,
for if I ever hope to guy it,
I simply must stay on my diet!

 

For dVerse Poets, a poem of negation.

Mirror Image, for the W3 prompt, Jan 23, 2025

Mirror Image

Who is the person
reflected in my mirror
over the past 77 years?

First me
then my mother
then my grandmother.

A reflection first of youth,
then lines
deepening into cracks.

It took me a minute to write the poem but two plus hours of sorting through 160,000 photos in my photo file to find photos to use with it. I never did find the actual photo I wanted to use. So goes life. It is true that a few years ago I started to see my mother instead of me when I looked in the mirror. Recently, it is my grandmother’s deeper wrinkles I see.

      • W3 poetry prompt

        For this week’s W3 prompt, Tia offers us the following guidelines:

        • Theme: The bittersweet, painful, or unsettling aspects of the past and its hold on the present;
          • Optional Challenge: Use imagery of shadows, cracks, or reflections to add depth to the theme;
        • Form: A “square” (e.g., 2×2, 3×3, 4×4, or any other pattern you choose);
          • “Rows” represent stanzas;
          • “Columns” represent the number of lines in each stanza;
            • For example: 3×3 = 3 stanzas of 3 lines each; and 4×4 = 4 stanzas of 4 lines each.

Angel Wing Jasmine for FOTD

 

Click on photos to enlarge.

 

For Cee’s FOTD

“How Much is Enough?” for the Writer’s Digest Wed. Poetry Prompt

How Much is Enough?
(Appraising the Situation)

Enough’s too much when it comes to fish
or any other smelly dish.
Too much for castor oil in spoons
or relatives on honeymoons.
Amoebas?  Any one’s too much,
and a date who wants you to go Dutch
clearly tells you he’s not “it.”
One mosquito, when you’re bit,
is not “enough,” but “one too many.”
when your preference is “not any!”

Kids with colds and snoopy neighbors,
tiresome chores and heavy labors,
bitter pills and jerked-off scabs,
rainy days with no free cabs,
diarrhea, scabies, gout?
Too much! Too much, without a doubt!
“Enough’s enough” is repetitious,
obvious and almost vicious.

So don’t go spouting it at me.
I hate cliches from A to Z.
I won’t have any said to me.
If you use them, you’re dead to me!
“It is sufficient” I will accept.
“I’ll have no more”  is most adept.
But don’t go muttering platitudes
at folks like me with attitudes,
or I promise we’ll be getting rough
enough to prompt, “Enough’s enough!”

 

For Writer’s Digest Poetry prompt: Appraisal  Image by Tonmoy on Unsplash.

We Saw a Shark!!!!

We were sorta wary of perhaps encountering a shark after a shark incident 20 kilometers south of La Manzanilla a year ago. Luckily, we didn’t encounter one in the water but then the second to last day, this one washed ashore!!!

 

Diving for Beach Sardines

This is the first time I’ve been back to La Manzanilla in a year and the activity was amazing with thousands of sardines jumping up into the air around us and frigate birds and pelicans swooping down to try to catch them. This video shows frigate birds diving to scoop up sardines from the beach.

 

Looking Down at the Beach.

The first fish looks sculpted from sand but was actually a real dead fish that had been beached, coated by sand and somewhat ossified. All first 5 photos taken in a 24 hour period on the beach in front of our beach rental in La Manzanilla. As for the apple, 2 mornings before,  I had written a poem about an apple on my blog, and searched for a photo in my photo file. Finally found one and posted it,  then came out  to the beach and discovered this apple lodged under the bottom of my beach chair. I needed a photo. Nature provided!

For Lens Artists Challenge; Taken from Above.

Damiana, for FOTD Jan 22, 2025

For Cee’s FOTD

Halyconia for FOTD Jan 21, 2025

For Cee’s FOTD

Dandelion for FOTD

This heartiest of flowers formed many memories in my childhood, from holding it under your chin to see if it reflected or not (Was it to see if you were telling the truth? Can’t remember) to making flower chains with them, to blowing their white fluff away to scatter in all directions with the result that it was later necessary to  pick hundreds of new dandelions out of the lawn!  They were the one flower that was ever-present during the spring, summer and fall.

For Cee’s Flower of the Day