
Confession to an Errant Grandchild
From the first, I called you “Piggy,” my small bundle in a poke.
You grew into a ham, as though you got the silly joke.
In return, you called me “Brammer,” for your whole younger life.
I ignored your teenage insolence, which cut me like a knife.
For years, you called me nothing, while off roaming with your friends.
I waited for your twenties, when you would make amends.
Those foggy baby early years, I’d held you in my arms,
your most ardent admirer, a captive of your charms.
When your parents fussed, I was always on your side.
Made cookies for your naughty friends, embraced your errant bride.
Wiped your babies’ noses, patted their small behinds,
as they toddled off to school, observed from behind blinds.
So many decades later, sitting by my bed,
not knowing it was just a cold, fearing I’d soon be dead,
you asked why I was always there and why I didn’t balk
at your teenage indifference and your dismissive talk.
What was germane to the matter, I finally confessed,
was a truth which on your own you might have never guessed.
As I observed the recklessness of you and your rude crew,
In every naughty act, I saw a bit of me in you.
Prompt words today are brammer, germane, foggy, ardent and joke.
A wonderful confession.
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Well, this succeeded in making me tear up – how sweet, and true, Judy!
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Oh I love making people tear up, V.J.
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Lol.
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So true, Judy! I see ALL OF ME in my granddaughter; it is uncanny and sometimes frightening…
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It must be so wonderful, however, to see yourself extending into the future through her. Perhaps this is why grandparents have such a wonderful bond with grandkids. They have the time to really see the similarities and to build on them. My niece and mother were like partners in crime and it irritated my sister no end. Ha.
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LOL Unfortunately, my Alisia is so far from me that I only get a chance to spend time with her for a few days twice a year. All the more amazing how she has the same interests and inclinations, even though noone has ever told you about mine.
An old Russian joke: Why are grandparents always so close to their grandchildren? Because the enemies of our enemies are our friends (doesn’t apply to me!).
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True enough😉
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This poem brought tears in my eyes thinking about the past and present and the many years that run so fast
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I’ve been thinking about that a lot, Maria,
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We are so far apart geographically but engage in the same kind of feelings about our youth and now mature age
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People are the same all over. When we travel enough, we see that.
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Sometimes we share a lot more with people far away but close via the internet. It’s easier to write than to speak about these deep things of loss or longing for something that was once present
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That is lovely
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