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Name-Dropping: My Confession #6

A while ago, I issued a challenge for people to tell me about their unusual meetings with famous people. I said that once enough people had told their stories, that I would tell mine. I’ve been publishing their stories as they tell them and now I’m ready to tell mine. I actually have another one I’ll tell once I hear a few more of yours as well!!

One of the first gringos I met when I moved to Mexico in 2001 was Betty Petersen, who was a wonderful artist and a great fan of the song “Coo Coo Roo Coo Coo Paloma.” One day in 2005, she asked me to join her for lunch at the Hotel Real de Chapala because her favorite mariachi band was playing there and since she had gifted their leader with a portrait of himself years before, they always played the favorite song mentioned above for her.

We had been serenaded and were enjoying our meals when a man came in and sat down at a table next to ours.  He hadn’t been there long when he struck up a conversation with me, asking about whether I was visiting, as he was. I said no, I’d lived here since 2001 and after asking me a few questions, he began telling me about his life.

Since most of the details sounded rather implausible, I asked him his name, and when he told  it to me, I must admit it was even more implausible than his stories, for he was claiming to be Billie Sol Estes!

Yes, of course I knew who Billie Sol Estes was, but I must say that little as I would ever imagine meeting him, it seemed even less plausible that I’d meet him in Ajijic, Mexico! Sensing I didn’t believe him, he then pulled out his book, which had just been published, and proceeded to tell even more outlandish stories, dropping names like JFK and Lyndon Johnson–at one point insisting that he had proof that Johnson had had Kennedy assassinated, saying Dorothy Kilgallen had been murdered because she had the proof of a further conspiracy in Kennedy’s murder.  All-in-all, he talked for over an hour, and when I got up to leave, he handed me a copy of his book. It was not until I got home that I opened it and saw what he had written inside.  (Since it took me some time to interpret his scrawl, I’ve written it out for you below.)

 

Yes, my jaw dropped when I read it, but not as much as it did when I read some of this other information about him online. This is part of an article that appeared concerning events that occurred after he had been indicted on a number of counts of fraud:

“Soon after the Estes indictments, however, Mr. Freeman, the agriculture secretary, disclosed that a key investigator on the case, Henry Marshall, had been found dead in Texas — bludgeoned on the head, with nearly fatal amounts of carbon monoxide in his bloodstream and five chest wounds from a single-shot bolt-action rifle. Local officials ruled it suicide, but the body was exhumed and the cause changed to homicide.Six other men tied to the case also died. Three perished in accidents, including a plane crash. Two were found in cars filled with carbon monoxide and were declared suicides. Mr. Estes’s accountant was also found dead in a car, with a rubber tube connecting its exhaust to the interior, suggesting suicide, but no poisonous gases were found in the body, and his death was attributed to a heart attack.In 1963, Mr. Estes was convicted on federal charges and sentenced to 15 years. A state conviction was overturned on grounds of prejudicial news coverage. After exhausting appeals and serving six years, he was paroled in 1971. In 1979, he was convicted of tax fraud and served four more years. He was released in 1983. A year later, in what he called a voluntary statement to clear the record, Mr. Estes told a Texas grand jury that Johnson, as vice president in 1961, had ordered that Mr. Marshall be killed to prevent him from disclosing Johnson’s ties to the Estes conspiracies. He said a Johnson aide, Malcolm Wallace, had shot him. The Justice Department asked Mr. Estes for more information, and the response was explosive. For a pardon and immunity from prosecution, he promised to detail eight killings arranged by Johnson, including the Kennedy assassination. He said that Mr. Wallace had not only persuaded Jack Ruby to recruit Lee Harvey Oswald, but that Mr. Wallace had also fired a shot in Dallas that hit the president. Mr. Estes also claimed knowledge of a White House plan to kill Fidel Castro and a plot by the former Teamster boss Jimmy Hoffa to kill Robert Kennedy. Mr. Estes reiterated his allegations in a book, “JFK, the Last Standing Man” (2003), written with William Reymond, as well as his own memoir, “Billie Sol Estes: A Texas Legend” (2004). As with similar allegations in books, articles and documentaries over the years, none of the Estes claims could be proven. Johnson had died in 1973, and everyone else, except Mr. Estes, was also dead.

In case you are wondering, no, I was not Billie Sol Estes’ mistress. I had never seen him before our encounter in 2005. Nor did I ever see him again.  He died on May 14, 2013.

Please rest assured that I am not supporting the truth of anything he said.  Just reading what he had written inside the book he gave to me made me fairly sure that I would take anything he said with an entire box of salt!!!!

Name-Dropping Confessions #4

Here are the stories people told me about their unusual meetings with famous people:

Ana Daksina

18m ago The Poet’s Public Record

I pissed off Miss People’s Republic of China once, by out-modeling her at her own fashion show. The designer invited me to China for the new spring line. I knew better! 🤣

Marilyn Armstrong

27m ago SERENDIPITY – SEEKING INTELLIGENT LIFE ON EARTH – teepee12.com

When I was 14 I was in the hospital (Columbia Presbyterian) in Manhattan. Eleanor Roosevelt was in there too — for the last time because she died a few weeks later. I met her in the elevator, each in our wheelchairs. I was too shy to have a conversation except to tell her that I enormously admired her. I was just 14 and she was so important.

Second? Getting to actually know Alfred Eisenstadt and actually spending time with him. He greatly changed and hugely improve my concept of photography.

bushboy
Tiny Tim – He had a show in a large club in Sydney where my brother-in-law was on the committee.After the show I went backstage to meet him. I have his autograph on a beer coaster somewhere in my boxes of treasures. Shaking his hand was like a wet fish.

He put on a good show

Name-Dropping Confessions #5 — From Dolly at Koolkosherkitchen

The assignment was to tell a story about an unusual meeting with a famous person. I love this one!!!

Due to the nature of my work in the old country, I’ve had to work with quite a few famous people (please don’t see it as bragging – it was my job!). When the Perestroika opened the borders, they started trickling here one by one to perform. I have many stories of their first encounters with America, but I think the funniest was the visit of the late great MIchail Zhvanetsky, the foremost Russian satirist, who always requested my borscht when he came to Miami. Having enjoyed the borscht, this time he wanted to be taken to one of the restaurants “with Spanish music” on South Beach. We went to Il Paparazzi, famous for its Northern Italian cuisine, and I translated the menu. He wanted Veal Parmigiano. As soon as the wines were discussed and his choice presented, he requested that it be warmed up. That was a shock which the sommelier managed to bear with a smile because I explained that our guest had a slight throat coarseness after his show and needed warm red wine.
Then the food came. He demanded soy sauce – in a posh Italian restaurant. The Chef ran out of the kitchen, brandishing a ladle dripping with tomato sauce, screaming, “I am Chef Vittorio! There is no soy sauce in my restaurant!” By the time we calmed him down and explained that our guest was a Russian celebrity, who might be allowed his quirks, the veal was stone cold. Chef Vittorio, understanding the importance of international relations, sent someone to the nearby Japanese restaurant for soy sauce and prepared a brand new plate of Veal Parmigiano, delivered by the Chef himself with a flourish.

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Hello, Madam

 

i am republishing this story in response to a comment in this earlier post: https://judydykstrabrown.com/2025/05/05/the-numbers-game-71-may-5-2025-come-play-along/  wherein someone commented about a photo of a dried seahorse I had included in the photos. I wrote back a comment about how I had acquired the seahorse from a man I met on the beach and then remembered that I had included that encounter in an unfinished book that includes numerous stories I’ve experienced or heard in Mexico. In this version, I told it from that man’s point of view.  In the fictionalized account, he says I had purchased a beach house. I actually just rented it for a few months a year for a number of years.  Again, here the story is told from his point of view but everything else is more or less true:

Hello Madam

My story begins years ago, when the gringo woman first bought the palapa house that fronts the beach in our village. It is many years now since that day I first passed her walking on the beach—her heading south as I headed north. I saw her falter when I drew close enough for her to see the machete in my hand. It was held down by my side, as this is how I always carry it, so I think perhaps she didn’t see it until I was quite close. I saw her alter the cadence of her walk, start to turn around, then instead, veer out into the water so as to cut as wide a swath as possible in our passing. I bid her good morning, trying to be as non-threatening as a six-foot-tall Mexican man carrying a machete could be on this deserted section of the beach. No other people walk in the dawn darkness before the sun comes over the palm trees and palapa rooflines.

She bid me good morning as well, saying “Buen dia,” in our fashion, instead of the usual “Buenos dias” that would brand her as a gringa. Not that anyone would have mistaken her for anything else. She wore the sackish coverup that many norte americanos adopt as their bodies get older and wider. Her skin was white, her hair straw-colored. She carried a big bag and stooped often to retrieve shells, stones, driftwood and other objects from the beach that she made into art. I have seen these objects spread out on the palapa-covered front porch of her house on the beach, very close to the water. Sometimes when she was not outside, I had peeked at her new constructions and after our first month of passing daily on the beach, I held out to her a small treasure I had found: a seahorse, bright orange, no longer than half my thumb. It was dead but still pliable. When I held it out to her, she was at first taken aback. Then I saw the pleasure on her face, as though I’d handed her a rose. The next day, I handed her a small rock imprinted with the fossil of a shell. It was gratifying to give these small ordinary things to someone who found them to have value.

The third day, I gifted her with three seahorses I’d found lying side-by-side on the beach, as though ready for a communal funeral. After I gave them to her, spread out to dry on a small section of a palm seed sheath that I had hacked out with my machete, it was she who initiated a conversation by asking why I carried the machete; and this is what I said back to her:

“Hello Madam. Someone has already told me that you are looking for stories, and knowing that I have many that I remember well and also have been said to share interestingly enough, he has recommended that I seek you out. In spite of this, do not think that our meeting on this beach was anything but coincidental. I have walked here every morning at this time for many years. It is fate that engineered our introduction, not I.

I am Fernando, but everyone here calls me “The Machete.” There is a story to this, of course, as there is a story to everything in Mexico. Sometimes I think our country is composed more of stories than of flesh or blood or clay or concrete. Stories and dreams and reality. Almost always, it is hard to know the difference.

Many years ago. Well, not really so many years—maybe twelve or fifteen—it was not as it is now. Few gringos lived in our community. Instead, there were dogs. Many wild dogs who roamed the beach. Sometimes some of them were rabid and there were at times problems when people carried food onto the sand. A few times, they even invaded the restaurants that opened onto the beach, rushing past tables, grabbing arrechera from plates and sometimes catching a hand or leg in the process. This brought a good deal of fear because of the fear of rabies, and everyone was talking to those who ran our pueblo, asking them what they were going to do about it. Finally, some of the men of the pueblo took guns and machetes and went in search of these dogs, disposing of many of them. For a while, peace reigned on the beach, but every few years, another wild pack would form and people would again be afraid to go onto the wilder parts of the beach—those parts where you and I like to walk.

Since I live a few miles from the place of my labor, it has been my practice for all these years to walk to work on the beach and as you might have guessed, this machete was my weapon against the wild dogs. Through the efforts of the many gringos who now live in our town, and the free spay and neuter clinics they provide twice a year, the problem of the wild dogs has disappeared; but I still carry my machete. It is as though my body has altered itself to accept this extra weight on my right side, so that without the machete, I cannot walk right. I cannot stride. I am not as sure-footed. This daily encumbrance has become a part of me, so always I carry it by my side. The story is simple. This is all there is to it.”

We passed on then, each in our particular direction, but I believe we parted as, if not friends, at least as congenial acquaintances. This was my first conversation with this woman who would one day have such an impact upon my life. It seems an inconsequential thing—this exchange of four seahorses and an imprinted stone—but these simple objects of seemingly no value were to be the golden key to my future—a story I will perhaps tell you one day if kind fate should set us in each others’ path.

This was the last chapter I wrote in a book entitle “Cucumber” that I was writing a few years ago. I never completed it, but I feel it stands on its own, so when I found it stashed away in a forgotten folder on my computer, I decided to share it as-is. Perhaps I’ll share some of the other chapters in the future–or perhaps I already have. I’ll have to check..Let me know if you think it works as it is. It is actually based on a true story, but told from the point of view of a real person I encountered many times on the beach.  The event mentioned is true, although the book will be a blend of fiction and real happenings. 

The Numbers Game #71, May 5, 2025. Come Play Along!!

The Numbers Game #71, May 5, 2025. Come Play Along!!

Welcome to “The Numbers Game #71”  Today’s number is 192. To play along, go to your photos file and type that number into the search bar. Then post a selection of the photos you find that include that number and  post a link to your blog in my Numbers Game blog of the day. If instead of numbers, you have changed the identifiers of all your photos into words, pick a word or words to use instead, and show us a variety of photos that contain that word in the title.This prompt will repeat each Monday with a new number. If you want to play along, please put a link to your blog in comments below. Here are my contributions to the album.

Click on photos to enlarge.

 

Santiago, Yolanda and Friends, For Cellpic Sunday, May 4, 2025

For CellPic Sunday

Cloudburst, For the Sunday Whirl Wordle 705

 

 

Cloudburst

Distant sirens justify our sloshing through the mud
to put the chains on tires that are filthy from the crud
of water mixed with father’s choice of topsoil for the garden
that crows have picked and worked at, so it couldn’t harden.
So when the rain comes, clattering the eaves troughs and the shutters,
sending muddy water swirling down the gutters,
there’s a short answer to the puzzle: that necessary bite
of the metal on the tires that will bring us through the night.
Raw courage and pure valor will guide us through the storm
back to our place of solace––safe and dry and warm.

For The Sunday Whirl 705 Wordle, the prompt words are: chain justify sloshing works clatters choice sirens distant crows puzzle short

More Name-Dropping Confessions #3

The challenge was to tell us about an unusual meeting with a famous person—giving as many details as possible!

Ooh — I didn’t think of Sir Edmund Hillary. My dad took our family to LA when I was about high school age to hear him talk about his ascent of Mt. Everest. After the talk, my dad took us on stage to meet Hillary. My dad, a pediatrician, asked him if they needed a pediatrician on their next ascent!

Several years later I was on a tour of the island of Hawaii. Our tour stopped at a the Rockefeller hotel for a buffet lunch. We arrived at the buffet line just as Happy Rockefeller was taking her plate to her table. She was very gracious and greeted everybody who was oohing and ahhing at her!

  1. VJ
    Well, I once encountered Will Smith in an airport – much shorter than I had thought. But the most exciting encounter happened a year or more ago. It was a Saturday, and hubby and I were relaxing when the phone rang. “I’m in the neighbourhood, can I drop by?” the caller asked. I yelled at my husband to quick get dressed. Loreena McKennet was dropping by. A huge fan, I almost fainted. She’d heard about our work with Ukrainians fleeing war and wondered how she could help. Our relationship continues.

    1. ghostmmnc
      Natalie Maines, singer with the Dixie Chicks (now just Chicks).Her extended family, grandparents, father, uncles, etc. are old family friends of ours. My husband’s dad worked with her grandfather in his mechanic’s business. His mom was good friends with the grandmother. Their children and my husband and his siblings all knew each other. Natalie’s father and his brothers and father were/are in a band, the Maines Brothers Band locally. Natalie was just a little kid when my girls were little kids, so they played together. We’d visit and even spent the night at their house once. Later the grandmother moved closer to where we live now, instead of just out of the city limits, and she’d come over to visit here at our house, too. Sadly she’s passed a couple of years ago. Anyway, I’m sure Natalie doesn’t remember us, as she was just little when we knew her. But still, it was very good to know this wonderful extended family all these years.

Name-Dropping Confessions #2–By Ann O’Neal Garcia

 

 

My challenge was to tell us about an unusual meeting with a famous person. This is my friend Ann O’neal Garcia’s description of her meeting with Ursula K. Le Guin:

I met Ursula leGuinn at a garden party maybe 7 yrs ago hosted by a mutual friend who was in Ursula’s book club. So we were introduced and my mutual friend said, “Ursula, Ann is a fantastic writer. Perhaps you could read something she’s written ” Ursula’s little tiny old face hardened. Her lips became a skinny red dash, her eyes shut tightly for a moment. She didn’t answer. She walked away and talked with a mutual acquaintance. I was hurt and embarrassed but I knew it was my friend who sounded the death knell. You don’t ask a famous writer who’s living out her last years on earth if she’d like to read another damned hopeful writer’s efforts! I felt how this must have felt. I probably would do the same thing if I were old and famous. I’m old now but not the other. But still .. I forgive her with all my heart.

And, more from Ann: I saw Roy Rogers and Dale Evans perform at Cheyenne frontier days in the 80’s? Not sure of date. It was just embarrassing. They sang a bit and mostly talked about Christianity. The sparse crowd slipped out, little by little.

Now…tell us yours!!! Once I’ve heard enough of yours to be satisfied, I’ll tell you mine.

Name-Dropping Confessions #1, May 4, 2025

:The challenge was to tell us about an unusual meeting with a famous person—giving as many details as possible!  Here are a few answers given in the comments section of the blog I published the prompt in. If you have a longer story to tell, please put it in a blog and send me a link in comments. Once my appetite for stories has been partially sated, I’ll tell you mine. It just awaits telling.  Here are a few early answers to the prompt;

I consider my entire life to be a bizarre circumstance. I met Sir Edmund Hillary at Arapaho Basin. We were in line for hamburgers being grilled over a woodfire halfway down the mountain.

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I’ve only met one – Duncan Renaldo! Who, you ask? Better known to my generation as The Cisco Kid. I even did a lil blog about my encounter. (Read about Forgottenman’s interesting encounter, with a picture, by clicking on the link below:

https://okcforgottenman.wordpress.com/2019/04/23/the-day-the-cisco-kid-rode-into-town/

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Tiffany Arp-Daleo has a very interesting twist at the end of her story:

I’ve met a few, but maybe the most bizarre is Greg Douglas, the guitarist for the Steve Miller Band. My ex was the sound guy for USO shows, he befriended Greg so we all hung out a bit, he was all set to play guitar at our wedding, but I called off the wedding the day before, never saw  Greg again!
Now, tell us yours!!!!