
When he wasn’t ranching or farming or drinking coffee in Mack’s Cafe, this is where my father could normally be found. When he died, the only thing my young nephew wanted of his was these disreputable boots, which my nephew wore until the soles flapped. They are the only pair of work boots I ever remember my father wearing–wrinkled into creases by repeated wettings and dryings and pullings off and on.
Jump
Once the grass had grown waist-high,
some summer nights, my dad and I
accompanied by the shake and rattle
of his old truck, would go watch cattle.
In the twilight, barely light,
but not yet turning into night,
he’d drive the pickup over bumps
of gravel, rocks, and grassy clumps,
over dam grades, then he’d wait
as I opened each new gate,
and stretched the wire to wedge it closed,
as the cattle slowly nosed
nearer to see who we were,
curious and curiouser.
We’d park upon some grassy spot
where a herd of cattle was not,
open the doors to catch a breeze,
and I’d tell stories, and dad would tease
until at last the cattle came,
and dad would tell me each one’s name:
Bessie, Hazel, Hortense, Stella,
Annie, Rama, Bonnie, Bella.
Razzle-dazzle, Jumpin’ Jane.
Each new name grew more inane.
Yet I believed he knew them all,
and as they gathered, they formed a wall
that grew closer every minute
to that pickup with us in it.
Finally, with darkness falling,
and the night birds gently calling,
with cows so near they almost touched
the fender of the truck, Dad clutched
the light knob and then pulled it back
as the cows––the whole bunched pack
jumped back en masse with startled eyes
due to the headlights’ rude surprise.
Then he’d flick them off again,
with a chuckle and devilish grin.
As the cattle edged up once more—
the whole herd, curious to the core—
again, my dad would stage his fun.
Again, they’d jump back, every one.
He might do this three times or four,
then leave the lights on, close his door,
and gun the engine to drive on home
as stars lit up the heavenly dome
that cupped the prairie like a hand,
leaving the cattle to low and stand
empty in the summer nights
to reminisce about those lights—
miraculous to their curious eyes.
Each time a wondrous surprise.
Life was simpler way back then
and magical those evenings when
after his long day’s work was done,
laboring in the dust and sun,
after supper, tired and weary,
muscles sore and eyes gone bleary,
still when I would beg him to
do what we both loved to do,
he’d heave himself from rocking chair,
toss straw hat over thinning hair,
and make off for the pickup truck,
me giving thanks for my night’s luck.
These were the finest times I had––
these foolish nights spent with my dad.
The prompt word today is “jump.”
amazing….. very beautiful….. nostalgic….
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Thanks, Sudhir. My dad was a remarkable and memorable man who made life so much better for his children and wife and grandchildren. Much of what I’ve been able to do in life was supported by the security of what he provided for us.
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very true….. they are always with us…..
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No guessing about this one Judy~! I can see loving memories in this great memorial poem about cows but mostly about a loving dad who loved everything around him. Thanks for sharing your memories~!
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He did have a great appreciation of life, Sam.
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A beautiful memory..
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I love this Judy. I read it several times. The picture of your Dad is priceless, and your reply to Sudhir is another testimony to the bigger than life man who was Ben Dykstra.
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I know. He really was bigger than life and I admire him more as I get older and realize what he overcame to build his life. And ours.
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This one really touched my heart strings! So special.
Looking forward to our visit.
Love you, Karen
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I felt I was sitting in the truck with you and your dad, and even those curious cows! A wonderful memoir and salute to time well spent with your father.
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Thanks, Denny. That is the best compliment possible!!!
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You are most welcome. I enjoy reading your words.
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Awww, wonderful man and delightful story.
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He was, Bernadette. I was lucky to have him for a father, as much as he may have embarrassed me at times. Ha.
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In a world where money is supposed to indicate advantage, you were a privileged child. Thanks for sharing your memories. 🙂
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Wow, Judy! What a wonderfully evocative tribute to your Dad, to a time gone by, and to the relationship you had with him. Such perfectly written lines, the rhymes unforced, adding to the tone and rhythm, pulling the reader in and moving us forward. Lovely, just lovely. Jo
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Thanks, Jo. Wish I’d recorded more of the stories he used to tell while my memory of them was fresher.
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I truly loved this one. 🙂
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Such a magical and powerful, yet sentimental memory of your great Dad. My Dad, Al Leckey, loved to joke around with him. Think they were both of German descent. Great writing, Judy.
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Thanks, Val. My dad was Dutch, but close!
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Oh, I loved reading this, such lovely memories and so wonderfully recorded.
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Here I am again and it’s even better the second time around!
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I hoped you’d appreciate my example of curiosity as much as I loved that photo of your snoopy cows.
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