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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

For dVerse Poets, Jan 6, 2026

Down in Grandma’s Cellar

Sleeping over at Grandma’s, her rooms all stuffed with treasure
there for my explorations, their pillaging my pleasure.
The barn so full and shadowed with pigeons, mice and more,
I did not venture farther than to peek in through the door.
But the basement was forbidden, so I overcame my fear.
To test my new maturity, I had to venture near.

Down in Grandma’s cellar, I could not see the stars.
There weren’t any planets like Jupiter or Mars.
But still it was as dark as night. The light from one mere candle
seemed the only light the ghosts who lived down there could handle.
As I creaked down the ladder rungs, glass rattled on the shelves
as though the time-dulled canning jars told stories on themselves.

Rhubarb on the nearest shelves, peaches in the back.
Watermelon pickles seemed poised for the attack,
swaying on the upper shelves, dusted by the years.
I gathered up my courage, pushing down my fears.
So many eyes caught in the dark––glassy gleaming sprites
waiting there to satisfy the family’s appetites.

But no one came to gather them and spread them on a plate.
The waste of it was senseless—their empty, useless fate.
How many hours she’d labored to gather nature’s fruit.
How many other hours used up in the pursuit
of washing, peeling, cutting, and packing them in glass,
packing them in cauldrons and boiling them en masse.

Where did the hungry mouths go? Why did they go untasted?
What happened all those years ago that their richness was wasted?
Accustomed to the secrets kept hidden behind blinds,
we kids retained the questions that stirred our tiny minds.
So many of these mysteries lie hidden in my past.
Remarkable how long their spreading shadows seem to last.

 

For dVerse Poets  our prompt was to use 3 poems by Elizabeth Bishop as examples colored by our own poetic voice to take the reader to a place, a person and an occasion, incorporating  accuracy of detail, spontaneity, immediacy and mystery to write our own original poem. 

At a Distance for Word of the Day, Jan 6, 2026

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At a Distance

Although you may be absent, thoughts of you still linger.
I think you have my memory wound around your finger,
for though I find the lack of you totally endurable,
my memory suffers from a need that’s totally incurable.
Friends may think the distance between us is a pity,
and yet with one so erudite, so pithy, loyal and witty,
it seems you linger on even after you are bound
off to other regions—your presence a mere sound
heard over the telephone, imagined o’er the keys,
so I may have your company any time I please.
Relationships are more, my dear, than a simple presence.
Sometimes merely words suffice to conjure up your essence.

 

I am answering this challenge with a poem written in 2016–ten years ago. If you are still curious about this untypical relationship described in the poem above, read more about it HERE
and then HERE.

For Word of the Day Challenge, the word is Distance.

The Numbers Game #106. Please Play Along! Jan. 5, 2026

 

The Numbers Game #106. Please Play Along! Jan. 5, 2026

Welcome to “The Numbers Game #106”. Today’s number is 228 . To play along, go to your photos file folder and type that number into the search bar. Then post a selection of the photos you find that include that number and post a link to your blog in my Numbers Game blog of the day. If instead of numbers, you have changed the identifiers of all your photos into words, pick a word or words to use instead, and show us a variety of photos that contain that word in the titleThis prompt will repeat each Monday with a new number. If you want to play along, please put a link to your blog in comments below. Here are my contributions to the album.

**Click on  Photos to Enlarge and View as Gallery.**

 

Cock of the Walk for Cellpic Sunday

 

This fellow stood out from as well as above the flock in Quintana Roo!

For Cellpic Sunday

My New Book Fish Feet Now Available on Amazon!!

Wouldn’t it be neat if fish had feet? This is the question considered in this fourth humorous rhymed children’s storybook written by Judy Dykstra-Brown and charmingly illustrated by Isidro Xilonzóchitl. Kids from 2 to 8 and beyond will enjoy this book, but nonreaders need not wait to recruit a reader to enjoy the book, for the words to the story are also presented as the sung lyrics of a song either accessed by means of a QR code on the front of the book or by directly connecting to Youtube. Music by Christine Anfossie is arranged, sung and recorded by Becky McGuigan. (If you want to hear the book sung, enlarge the QR code above and click on it with your camera, click on Youtube and lend an ear!!!)

HERE is the Amazon link.

If you get the book, I would appreciate reviews here and on Amazon. If you just listen to it making use of the QR code, I’d appreciate knowing what you think as well.  

“The Green Moth” for the Poetry Challenge

The Green Moth

Note: The Poetry Challenge was to write 10-14 sentences of poetic prose about a defining moment that influenced a new direction . Wish I had more skill in formatting this so the words came right up to the moth, as they did when it flew onto my screen and then rested quietly as I arranged the words around it. This was the best I could do in recreating the experience.

Fibbing New Year!

Jill & Jan, 11-inch Predecessors to Barbie dolls!!!

First fibs of the new year.

1. What is a clog? A roll of hundred dollar bills.
2. What is a flip flop? A pancake in process that winds up on the floor or ceiling.
3. What is a slipper? A sinuous kiss.
4. What is a sneaker? A philandering husband.
5. What is a geta? A procurer.
6. What is a babouche? The process of childbirth.
7. What is a zori? An eye that has been punched in a fight.
8. What is a mule? A good Xmas season.
9. What is a jandal? An 11-inch Volgue doll––predecessor to Barbie!
10. What is a pantofle? A pair of bell-bottoms.

Last on the Card for Dec 31, 2025

Can you guess what this is? No work has been done on the photo, other than to reduce its size. (Yes, it’s in full color.)  Once I see 10 guesses here, I’ll tell you what it is. Xill, no fair guessing!!!

Toucan, For Cellpic Sunday, Dec 28, 2025

 

We finally spotted a flock of these toucans we’d been looking for for three weeks at the Chacchoben Mayan ruins last week. We fly home today!!!!

For Johnbo’s Cellpic Sunday

The Numbers Game #105. Please Play Along! Dec 29, 2025

The Numbers Game #105. Please Play Along! Dec 29, 2025

Welcome to “The Numbers Game #105”. Today’s number is 227 . To play along, go to your photos file folder and type that number into the search bar. Then post a selection of the photos you find that include that number and post a link to your blog in my Numbers Game blog of the day. If instead of numbers, you have changed the identifiers of all your photos into words, pick a word or words to use instead, and show us a variety of photos that contain that word in the titleThis prompt will repeat each Monday with a new number. If you want to play along, please put a link to your blog in comments below. Here are my contributions to the album.

**Click on  Photos to Enlarge and View as Gallery.**