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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Clearing The Deck

What does one do when they wake up at 5 AM after 4 1/2 hours of sleep and can’t get back to sleep again? Too lazy to go out and do more exercises in my pool, I decided to clear off my computer desktop which has once again become completely covered.  In doing so, I found these favorite photos which over the past few weeks I have discovered in other places and put on the desktop in case I need them. Here they are, given a purpose, so I can again stash them away.

If you have questions about the photos, ask, and If you decide to do the same, send me a link!!!

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Succulents and Friends for FOTD, Jan 28, 2025

This beautiful display is a closeup of part of the display in front of the Jardin Restaurant in the Ajijic Plaza. Here is another full view:

For Cee’s FOTD

Scrabble Quibbles for RDP Jan 27, 2025

 

Scrabble Quibbles

Scrabble Quibbles

I move the tiles back and forth but still I cannot lick
the secret to which words may be made from my weird pick.
I cannot spell “memorial” without another “m,”
so instead I settle and simply spell out “rim.”
Before too long I find another perfect word to make,
but, alas, I do not have the “u” to spell out quake.
I spy the final “u” when my opponent shifts her rack,
and so I skip my turn to return some letters back.
And this segment of the story will prove I was to blame
when my sister drew the “q” and spelled out “quick” to win the game!

Note: the photo of the Scrabble board is of a real game, although not the one described in the poem. The reason I took the photo is because of the very unlikely occurrence of the word “urinate” showing up twice on the same board. What are the chances of not only having the right tiles to spell the same 7 letter word twice but also finding a place to play them? 

The prompt for RDP Monday is Quibble

The Numbers Game #58. Jan 27, 2025. Come Play Along!!

The Numbers Game #58, Jan 27, 2025. Please Play Along!

Welcome to “The Numbers Game #58”  Today’s number is 179. To play along, go to your photos file and type that number into the search bar. Then post a selection of the photos you find that include that number and  post a link to your blog in my Numbers Game blog of the day. If instead of numbers, you have changed the identifiers of all your photos into words, pick a word or words to use instead, and show us a variety of photos that contain that word in the title.This prompt will repeat each Monday with a new number. If you want to play along, please put a link to your blog in comments below. Here are my contributions to the album.

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“Shore Leave” for The Sunday Whirl # 691, Jan 26, 2025

Shore Leave

Calm cliffs rise up from beastly seas to soothe a sailor’s mind,
and rolling hills make memories of a different kind.

Though blades of grass may mimic the sway of restless swells,
more timid winds shake music from a string of tiny bells
woven through the tree limbs and stroke music from thin bars
sticking up out of  the earth, topped off by tiny jars
that lips of breezes play like flutes to create harmony
under the stars that sets the hearts of land-bound sailors free.
These scenes that meet their gazes dispel dark memories
of months of troubled dreaming on tempest-tossed wild seas

Painting by Juan Antonio Pérez Ayala

For The Sunday Whirl Wordle 691  today’s words to use are: bell mimic blade gaze hills jar soothe mind stars timid beastly sea

Making up Words, for Sunday Confessionals, Jan 26, 2025

Trump-headedness is my made-up word and the definition is: A mental condition during which one spouts facts contrary to the truth in order to further one’s own welfare, ego or pocketbook.

 

For Sunday Confessionals, we were asked to create a new word for the dictionary.

Purple Heart for FOTD Jan 26, 2025

For Cee’s FOTD

Unplanned Stop, for Cellpic Sunday, Jan 26, 2025

We were about 5 minutes out of La Manzanilla on the twisty two lane road to Melaque when we started hearing something dragging on the undercarriage of the car.  Irritated drivers piled up behind us as I slowed the car to a speed which minimized the scraping sound. Eventually, I found a small turnoff and pulled off the road. Cars zipped by us as Isidro got down on his hands and knees and eventually his stomach to try to figure out what piece of my car seemed determined to desert us. Moving around the car, he finally located the problem in the same locale that had started the problem the last time I drove to La Manzanilla a year ago that resulted in the entire protective shield for the undercarriage separating and falling off on the road. 

Since we knew there was no garage in La Manzanilla, we continued on our way. I drove slowly, acquiring another sizable entourage behind us before finally reaching Melaque, where we spotted this small radiator/muffler repair shop by the side of the road. Although they had no car lift, they quickly pulled two small metal lift tracks and drove the car up onto them. We moved to the shade of the garage to inspect their organization and observe the forging of a piece for the job they’d been working on before our arrival by one of the three men in the shop as the other two collaborated  to have us on the road again in 15 minutes or so.  The cost? Five dollars!! I gave them a 50 percent tip and we were off with a warning that this was a temporary fix.  

It is still serving me well 5 days later, but composing this cellpic feature has reminded me that I must make an appointment on Monday to have it checked out.

 

 

 

For Cellpic Sunday

Roses, FOTD, Jan 25, 2025

 

 

For Cee’s FOTD

Nightmare. Please read and share this post!!!!

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This is an excerpt from Heather Cox Richardson’s latest “Letter from an American.” To see the entire piece go HERE

“It is the policy of the Government of the United States to provide equal opportunity in Federal employment for all qualified persons, to prohibit discrimination in employment because of race, creed, color, or national origin, and to promote the full realization of equal employment opportunity through a positive, continuing program in each executive department and agency.”

This democratic government was popular, but as the memory of the dangers of fascism faded, opponents began to insist that such a government was leading the United States to communism. Tax cuts for the wealthy and corporations, along with the deregulation of business and cuts to the social safety net, began to concentrate wealth at the top of society. As wealth moved upward, lawmakers chipped away at the postwar government that defended democracy.

And now, since the inauguration of President Donald Trump on Monday, the dismantling of that system is happening all at once.

The Guardian reported today that incoming Secretary of State Marco Rubio has ordered a halt to almost all foreign aid, with the exception of military assistance to Israel and Egypt. The Guardian notes that this order is likely unlawful, since Congress sets the budget and in 1974 declared it illegal for the president to impound funds. Still, a source foresaw the end of the global influence the U.S. has had since World War II, telling The Guardian: “Freezing these international investments will lead our international partners to seek other funding partners—likely US competitors and adversaries—to fill this hole and displace the United States’ influence the longer this unlawful impoundment continues.”

As Peter Baker of the New York Times notes, new president Donald Trump is trying to break NATO by demanding that members increase military spending to 5% of their nations’ economies, although the U.S. currently spends about 3% of its GDP on defense. If we were to meet that requirement, Baker points out, the U.S. would have to increase its defense budget by $567 billion a year. Isabel van Brugen of Newsweek reports that an Italian news agency says that Trump intends to pull about 20,000 U.S. troops from Europe and wants Europe to pay to maintain the rest.

Trump has undertaken to dismantle the postwar democratic government at home, too. He has stopped the funding for repairing roads, bridges, airports, and ports that passed Congress in a bipartisan vote in 2022, as well as taken away funding for new solar manufacturing plants and other new systems to address climate change.

He has frozen all travel and communications at the Department of Health and Human Services, including the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and the National Institutes of Health. “We’ve never seen anything like this,” one researcher told Dan Diamond, Lena H. Sun, Carolyn Y. Johnson, and Mark Johnson of the Washington Post. “This is like a meteor just crashed into all of our cancer centers and research areas.”

And, of course, Trump has declared a war on diversity, equity, and inclusion programs. In his revoking of LBJ’s Executive Order 11246, itself based on FDR’s Executive Order 8802, he explicitly rejected the principles for which the Americans fought in World War II.