Gender Communication
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For Cee’s CFFC, Male Vs. Female prompt.
And I think this also works for the Word of the Day: Relationship.
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For Cee’s CFFC, Male Vs. Female prompt.
And I think this also works for the Word of the Day: Relationship.
Note Attached to a Skirt at Mia’s Recycled Clothing Shop
I’ve made a decision to downsize my clothes.
I’ve thrown out my slips and old panty hose
that have lain there dormant for thirty-five years,
my decision to jettison long in arrears.
Then I threw out old fashions that I knew were dated.
With memories they were all so permeated—
of travel and weddings and high school dances,
that I couldn’t avail myself of the past chances
to donate to charities or to my friends
or delegate them to more permanent ends
such as landfills and garbage trucks. It seemed too crass
to dispose of such wonderful memories en masse.
Yet now I’ve decided to lighten my load
and get rid of excess that fills my abode.
I only hope that one day I’ll detect
the trickle-down theory gone into effect:
some stranger, perhaps, that I pass by chance
who knows not why she’s met with an extra-warm glance
as she strolls down the street looking happy and gay
in the gypsy skirt chosen for my wedding day
thirty-five years ago, now finally freed
from my closet to go on and finally lead
a life of its own and to soak up some new
happiness. Will it perhaps be from you?
Prompts for today are downsize, permeate, trickle, avail and decision.
Note from Leslie: This is my favorite photo of late because as soon as I saw this tree as I walked around this lake I instantly thought she was lifting her skirt so I could get by.
Note from Judy: Leslie wrote one of my favorite books, available in print, Kindle and audio versions. You can read more about it here: http://www.lesliejohansennack.com/
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Contronyms and Clarity
The word “cleave” is an enigma—first itself and then its opposite,
for it can mean “to cling to” but it also means “divide or split”.
What’s with the English language, with words meant to confuse?
Why bother to define a word that seems meant to abuse
our reason and ability to know what a word means?
Has our whole lexicology reverted to our teens
where “bad” is “good” and “sick” is “amazing, awesome, cool?”
What’s with these double meanings that make me feel a fool?
Do you believe the world of words has somehow let you down?
You imagine you’re a scholar, but turn out to be a clown?
That “hold up” means “support” but also “impede” is mendacious.
What next? Will “roomy” come to mean both “cramped” as well as “spacious?”
A rock is something solid—the opposite of jerking.
So why does “rocking out” involve this gyrating and twerking?
Someone “left” remains but one departed also “left.”
What happens in a language where there is not a cleft
between what a word means and its opposite as well?
Have we run out of ways to enumerate and spell?
Are there not sufficient different words to go around?
Must we ascribe to opposites the same spelling and sound?
Though it’s anything but spartan, must our language play the fool
and accept a meaning for a word that clearly breaks the rule
that a word must stand for something clearly understood?
That a word can mean its opposite ultimately would
turn “black” to “white” and “white” to “black”, turn “happiness” to “sadness,”
and once given this opening, our world would turn to madness.
If “yes” meant “no,” how many brides would be sadly wed
when they meant to marry another man instead?
If “up” meant “up” but also “down,” how would folks reach their floor?
And imagine the concussions if “solid wall” meant “door.”
So, so much for contronyms. Let us cease to spout them.
It’s clear enough to me the world is better off without them!
Prompts for the day are opening, spartan, mendacious, cleave and let you down.
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I took this photo 15 years ago at the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico City. I love the position of the arms of the fourth nun from the right and how the third nun from the left has twisted around to look behind her, plus the three feet kicked up as though skipping or doing a small jig. A friend I showed it to asked me what I would name a group of nuns and this started a back and forth conversation of suggestions. With this in mind, I have two requests to make of you.
A squadron of nuns
A file of nuns
A river of nuns
A flotilla of nuns
Here are favorite photos of those responding to this prompt:
Manja’s Favorites: https://mexcessive.photo.blog/2021/05/30/favourite-photos/
Cee’s Favorite: https://ceenphotography.com/2021/05/28/lifelessons-challenge-this-is-my-favorite-photo-that-ive-ever-taken/
Leslie’s Favorite: https://judydykstrabrown.com/2021/05/28/leslie-nacks-favorite-photo/
Lynette’s Favorite: https://lynettedartycross.com/2021/05/31/marvellous-monday-favourite-photos/
My tree doesn’t have as many blooms as are usual this year, but the ones that are there are as beautiful as ever.