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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Beach Walk

We still love La Manzanilla, don't we? We know that all will soon be back to normal, the laguna once more sealed off, the crocodiles sealed off from the beaches and coastline, and the beaches and water once more inviting to human habitation.
It was 35 years ago that I first ran away from home to go live at the beach.  For the past 15 years, I have never lived more than 4 hours away from the ocean, and for 20 years before that, I was within 20 miles of it. During these years, I have written hundreds of pages of poems and stories about the the beach, and as I sat here for two hours today, reworking what perhaps was one of the first poems I ever wrote as I spent a year going to the beach every day to write, it suddenly occurred to me that I would rather be doing art, using the boxes of material collected on the beach during the two months I spent there this year, than writing about the experience. I’ve already done that, and here is where you can find it: https://judydykstrabrown.com/category/beach-poems/

That URL will get you to the most recent beach poems. (You’ll need to scroll down past this one once you’ve clicked on the URL above.)  To see earlier ones, go to the archives (near the bottom of the scroll next to a poem entitled “flip flop”)  and select November, 2014 or December, 2014 for older poems.

Please join me in beach combing by taking a walk backwards—as far as you choose to go—through three years of beach poems—reading and looking at what you wish. Some poems you may just walk by or pick up in your hands and then cast away. Others you may examine closely, reading them in their entirety. And some, I hope, you will choose to store away on the shelf of your mind to remind you that you came from the sea and it is always there for you to go back to.

Now, for the rest of the day, I’m going to do what I’ve wanted to do for a month and a half now—unpack some of the boxes of shells, stones, bones, sand, corroded metal, driftwood and assorted beach trash found on the beach as well as uncompleted “found” sculptures begun in January and February. Then, I’ll  “do” for a day instead of writing about it.

Please enjoy your beach combing today as I’ll enjoy mine.

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https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/beach/

Bubble Talk

 

For Jennifer’s “bubble” challenge.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Raison d’etre

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Raison d’etre

What needs incite
my lust to write?
I fear the answer
is a cancer
that swims my brain
prompting refrain
in rhyme and meter
perfect and  neater
than free verse or
that deadly bore––

the limerick
that lost its kick
decades ago.
I love the flow
of iambs and
trochees that stand
first tall, then short
as if in sport––
touching their toes
or knees to nose.

Dactyls are gimpy–
awkward and limpy.
What I like best?
The anapest!
Its canter sweet
just can’t be beat.
It is my chance
to strut and prance
to sing and dance
through fine parlance
in rhymes repeated
while snugly seated.

My deeds nefarious
are all vicarious––
neatly rhymed
and evenly timed.
In short, my time
is spent in rhyme.
And if you’re judging
my dearth of budging,
I am not crazy.
I’m merely lazy!

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/discover-challenges/raison-detre/

Hope

IMG_5964Hope wears a white apron and a pensive smile!

Hope

I hope life turns out as you wish and is a bowl of cherries.
I hope you find a run of luck and that it never varies.
The whole world would be lucky, if I had my “druthers.”
Every line would catch a fish. All orphans would find mothers.
All endings would be happy.  All lottery tickets win.
But as I stop to think of it, I have to think again.
If all of us were winners, winning would lose its distinction.
Every hunter bagging game would lead to their extinction.
It seems that often one guy’s luck brings bad luck to another.
If you’re the family favorite, then it cannot be your brother!
So if I must express my hopes I guess that I’ll just say
I hope that when it is your turn, good luck will come your way!

Now I have to tell the story about my camera, which showed up missing (oxymoron) the day after I’d met friends in the Ajijic plaza coffee place.  I’d run a number of errands that day, and so after I had searched my house for over an hour, and my car, and my garden, I headed off for town.  Was it at the coffee place?  No.  Either of the stores I’d visited? No.  I headed down the street to Ajijic Tango, where I’d had comida with my friends.  All locked up.  Seeing a door ajar a few yards away from the entrance, I called into it.  It must be the kitchen.  I called and called and fially someone came.  I gave them a note asking the owner to call me.Then I went home.

A day or so ago I wrote about a friend in Missouri who tends to straighten out my life for me on a regular basis?  Well, I wrote to him bemoaning the fate of my camera.  Within the hour, he had sent me a link to a local message board and lo and behold–there was a picture of my living room with friends I’d invited to a viewing of the new documentary of another friend all sitting in it!  A picture that had been in my camera!  Turns out the lady pictured above had been approached by a man who tried to sell her a camera.  “He asked too much” she said in her message, which stated that when she’d inspected the camera, she had surreptitiously removed the sd card from the camera as well as three more in the pouch of the carrying case, then posted one of the pictures on the card in hopes of finding the owner.

Did she know the man who had the camera?  She did.  Long story short, she went to his house to ask about the camera.  Sadly, he reported, it had stopped working. (He still didn’t realize she’d taken the sd cards out. Brilliant move on her part.)  Did he still have the camera?  No, he had given it to his son, who, it turned out, worked in the restaurant next to where I must have lost my camera!  After a few more trips to enquire on her part, the next morning I recovered my camera from the son, giving him a good reward, although he didn’t ask.  I then recovered my four sd cards from the angel pictured above and gave her a reward as well, in spite of her protests.  And that is how my Music Man in Missouri once more came to my aid and turned disaster into luck.  (If you regularly read my blog, you might have guessed that I cannot survive without my camera.)  What does this story have to do with hope?  Simply that I hope if you ever lose anything dear to you that you have two angels  looking over you as I did!!!

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/hope/

Hat Face

I have a friend who used to look so good in hats that her father called her “hat face.”  I’ve always looked like a little old lady in hats and now that I am a little old lady, I still do.  That’s why I rarely wear them. Here are some folks who do them more justice.

(Click to enlarge photos)

 

https://hughsviewsandnews.com/2016/05/03/hughs-weekly-photo-challenge-week-24-hats/

Bouquet: Cee’s Flower of the Day Challenge May 3, 2016

These are closeups of pillows made from Oaxacan embroidered fabric. Click to enlarge.

https://ceenphotography.com/2016/05/03/flower-of-the-day-may-4-2016-bearded-iris/

Celebrate, Celebrate!!!!

IMG_6571.jpgHere is proof, kids, that I just had my 200,000th view.  That is so exciting and you all are responsible for it.  Thanks, thanks, thanks.  You are what keeps me obsessive!!!

Here is a link just sent to me by forgottenman: https://judydykstrabrown.com/2016/01/19/celebrating-my-100000th-view/

I wouldn’t have noticed either of these occasions if he hadn’t pointed them out to me.  Thanks, fm. I remember when we were excited over my first view!!!  Thrilling.

And he also sent me the link for my very first post:  https://judydykstrabrown.com/2013/03/27/what-im-doing-here/

Firecracker Plant: Flower of the Day

firecrackerplant, perhaps because they just generally have a very simple shape.  The best photo opportunity I ever had (and missed–) Was of a whole row of lipstick blooms bobbing across the terrace–each carried by a worker for the leafcutter ants. I can’t believe that it didn’t occur to me to take a photo.  Or perhaps I did and it is stuck on some old hard drive that I’ve forgotten.

 

https://ceenphotography.com/2016/05/02/flower-of-the-day-may-3-2016-bearded-iris/

Selfies for Dummies by a Dummie

Or, “Abandoned.  Why I Gave up Selfies in Favor of a Burka!”

(Click on first photo and arrows to enlarge your illustrations and see your instruction guide.)

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/abandoned/

San Juan Cosala Fire–“After” Pictures

Two nights ago I published pictures of what looked to be a huge fire on the mountain below me.  Yesterday I went back down to try to find the area to photograph it.  I could only locate one spot and this is what I saw:

IMG_6378IMG_6379Strangely enough, it looks like just the dry grass burned and burned so quickly that it left some of the greener bushes and plants.  I’ve augmented the color a bit so you can see the burned areas, but the green, even though a bit brighter than it actually is, does nonetheless show the green plants untouched by the fire. The fire extended over a much larger area than this, but this was the only place where a road led close enough to photograph it.  It appears that the cross and flags were not burned, so I don’t know what it was that I saw burning that looked like a rope of flags and a cross.  Perhaps I had a vision…ha.