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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Bougainvillea: Over the Wall, FOTD Oct 29, 2023

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A bougainvillea vine lush from recent rains hangs out over the wall into my lower garden as though to catch a glimpse of the just-completed Quetzalcoatl sculpture down below. It’s been two years now since I started working on this reclamation from dumping ground weed patch to community garden. More to come. And yes, I have decided on a name. A secret for now.

For Cee’s FOTD

Symmetry

 

 

for Lens-Artists Challenge 273: Symmetry

Hibiscus, for FOTD Oct 28, 2023

For Cee’s FOTD

Evensong

 

Evensong

The mare lifts her head,
Her edges framed by sunlight
as, with a wounding grace,
her colt strips leaves from branches tender
as his own lithe legs
tangled in new willow.

Clouds form a new volcano behind the mountains.
Beer bottles stick, almost buried, from scabbed truck ruts feet deep. 
A man with his mewling cow on a rope
follows long plaintive cries
in the direction of her almost-grown calves.

In the immense spreading Grandmother of trees,
the egrets open their back feathers
like bottlebrush blooms,
and fan after fan, They stroke the air.
White against the vivid green leaves.

 

 

For the dVerse Poets prompt.
See how other poets responded to the prompt HERE

Marigolds: FOTD Oct 27, 2023

Oops. Late today. I have an excuse!!!  Tell you about it later. Marigolds are the traditional flower for Day of the Dead in Mexico. All along the road between Ajijic and San Juan there are roadside vendors, with trucks filled with them in front of the pantheons (graveyards.) The trail of petals from the flowers in front of my altar to the front door is a road inviting spirits of loved ones to visit but then to depart again. Thus it leads both up to the altar and afterwards, back out through the front door. My house has had a number of visits by spirits over the past 22 years. If you check back through my blogs, you’ll hear their stories.

For Cee’s FOTD

Real Flowers!!! (Crown of Thorns) for FOTD Oct 26, 2023

(Forgottenman suggested I post a real flower to atone for his little gag on the earlier one posted for today.)

For Cee’s FOTD

Wild White Flour for FOTD, Oct 26, 2023

Forgive Forgottenman, Cee.  He noticed I hadn’t published a flower for today so he set this up on my site!  I’ll atone by publishing a real one as welll!  All of the below is what Forgottenman posted on my blog.

Giggling as I draft this. Yeah, WAY outta bounds! Still…
Do or not do with it as you will or won’t.

Wild White Flour

For Cee’s FOTD?

Mixtape

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Mixtape

I’ve been doing a dozen things
at once all day long.
My Day of the Dead altar
is in its seventh incarnation—
marigolds
and mosaic skulls added,
the flowerpots
wrapped in silver foil.

In front of most
of its honorees
is a single offering.
Chocolate for my mother,
a tiny glass of milk
with cornbread
crumbled in it
for my dad,
a joint for Gloria.

I need to decide between
a tiny book of poems
and a can of Coke for Bob.

Altar rejects
litter the table
and floor around me
and the frames I’ve been painting
around the paintings I should already
have taken to the gallery
still don’t look just right.

But from the iPod,
Mary Gauthier is advising me
to have a little mercy now.
So, although I can’t resist
putting away the Scotch tape
and three pens
and two three pairs of scissors first,

I am committed to writing
just one poem
before first going in search
of the  glass of “Oats Overnight”
I made and then misplaced
and then my phone—
lost for the fifth time today.

I thank Telmex for the house phone
I keep solely
for calling my lost cell phone,
which I find two feet away
from my left hand,
buried under an unruly pile of papers
and a paper maché figure
of a small skeleton
in a sombrero
and hoop skirts
holding an empty basket.

Joe Purdy
bewails Canyon Joe,
surrendering the stage
to whoever recorded
a C&W version of
“Let it Be Me.” Someone
not the Everly Brothers—
perhaps you know who.
My ipod just says “Track 09,”
which sounds like
a Bob Dylan song,
doesn’t it?

And this is the best argument
I can think of
to end this attempt at a poem
and surrender to Netflix.
Or perhaps a swim
in this afternoon’s
still-hot pool.

The dogs will come out
to commune
as well.
And perhaps the white owl
will fly over as it did
that night long ago,
swooping low
over the pool,
then rising to wing
over the neighbor’s house.

The Avett Brothers
are advising me to
“Go to Sleep”
but I resist.
Too many piles to deal with
and perhaps I should venture
one more try at getting my new computer
to sync with the Cloud.
Or watch that last episode
of “Sex Education” which
I cannot believe
I am addicted to.

Griffin House declares
they are “Crazy for You,”
which seems appropriate
to end this poem with.
These songs
have aged well
over the ten years
since you sent
the mixed tape
I’ve been listening to
ever since.

Alien?? for FOTD, Oct 25, 2023

Or perhaps just a Euphorbia Bracteata (Slipper Plant)

For Cee’s FOTD

Bringing in the Pollen Harvest: FOTD Oct 24, 2023

For Cee’s FOTD