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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

The Zen of Fear

The farther up the mountain we went, the smaller the road became. I was on the outside and for most of the way the drop was severe–with no siderails or walls or shoulders. Vertigo? Yes.

The Zen of Fear

I don’t know what’s in front of me,
can’t  recall what’s in the rear.
Don’t know if I should run full force
or if I should veer.

I guess I will just take what comes
and enjoy the ride.
Life is so much better spent
with fears all set aside.

The Pensivity Three Things Challenge prompt today is Front, Rear, Aside.

Postscript:

Forgottenman says I should include our Skype conversation that took place between my writing of this poem and its posting, so here goes:

Judy, 11:54 PM: what should I name the poem I’m about to post? Yeah I know yer drunk, but you do some of your best thinking in that condition!  ;o)
Forgottenman, 11:56 PM: Heh, yep. I’m thinking! My first drunken thought is The Zen of Fear.
Forgottenman: 12:01 AM: Wow – you actually titled it that!
Judy, 12:01 AM: Well I always do.  I used the title you suggested yesterday, too! It was a good title.  I could write poems all day long but I am usually stymied by the titles. I still don’t have a title for my Ethiopia book after twenty years!!!!! Can’t finish and publish it until I do.

Another Glorious Hibiscus: FOTD Aug 30, 2023

Yesterday this flower was a bud. Today, it has spread out in all its glory.  For those who asked how large the one the other day was, I promised to measure the next one. This one is about 7 1/2 inches wide. 

For Cee’s FOTD

The Look!!!

A friend sent me this. Thanks, Joan. Had to share it with you. Spooky!!!!

Sisters, for dVerse Poets

 

Noises in the Night

She was six years old and alone in a room that had noises in the wall. She would curl up into a tight little ball under the covers and concentrate on the friendly sounds––the tapping of the pendulum of the clock which hung on the wall beside her bed and the water gurgling through the heating pipes. The muffled voices of her parents down below in the living room. She liked these noises. They made her think that she wasn’t alone.

But she could hear other sounds of the summer night–– the sudden loud popping noise that she thought was a gun until daddy told her that it was only houses settling, or the sound of the elm tree outside her window scraping against the brick on the chimney or the wind as it whined through her screens, making the venetian blinds scrape against their wooden window frames. She could hear things in the walls, too––noises that sounded like people walking and high shrieking noises that daddy said were just mice and not robbers.

The sheet felt muggy on her bare legs and she kicked it off and rolled over. She lay on her stomach and slipped her hand beneath the pillow, sliding it back-and-forth against the trapped coolness of the percale. She glanced at the noisy pendulum clock Santa had brought her for Christmas to help her learn to tell the time. It was her first real clock and it was in the shape of a Shmoo.  She could just make out where its hands were from the light of the streetlamp shining through her window. It wasn’t very late.

She flipped over and slid her legs over the side of the bed, feeling the slight stickiness of the linoleum on her feet as she walked to the window. The air had cooled a bit and it had started to rain. A slight breeze tickled the hairs on her arm and sifted the rain onto her nose as she pressed it close to the screen to smell the mustiness of the wet night grass.

She wondered when her older sisters would get home and come up to bed. It was lonely in a room all alone in the upstairs of a house that had robbers in the walls.

 

Most of you have probably seen this next post about my sisters, but I had forgotten it so perhaps you have, too: https://judydykstrabrown.com/2021/11/06/my-sisters-camera/
This pictorial post from two years ago actually prompted a book which I am doing the final editing on. Hopefully it will be published in the next few months.

For the dVerse Poets prompt: Siblings

And you can read what others wrote in their response HERE.

Plumeria: FOTD Aug 29, 2023

For Cee’s FOTD

Surveyor (Bird Watcher)

Sometimes we forget that we, too, are being surveyed. 

For Pic and a Word Challenge #245

Free Link to View or Download My Retablos Book

Forgottenman just informed me that although I uploaded my entire Retablos book to my Webpage in February, that I didn’t ever do a blog giving the link! If you would like to either download it or view it for free, here is the Link: https://judydykstrabrown.com/retablos/

You can also find the link at the top of my Webpage just before “Why Grieflessons?”

Most of these retablos are still available to purchase. I must say I love to create but I’m terrible at marketing.  Thanks, Forgottenman!!

Please note that although several of the photos are very small, you can increase their size on the downloaded version.

Plumeria for FOTD Aug 28, 2023

 

 

For Cee’s FOTD

For the Sunday Whirl Wordle 617

True Confessions

Drag your dreams to paper.
Slam them on the page.
Let loose your bones of worry.
Release your screams of rage.

With all your senses humming,
drive away each care
by sharing it with all the world.
Be truthful if you dare.

Nonsensical or rational,
each fresh fear that you share
will drive your worries all away,
so tell us if you dare,

what secrets you have left to tell.
Run every dread fear by us.
If you need an audience
take a chance and try us!

For Wordle 617 the words are: nonsensical drive left humming fresh loose bones slam run paper dream drag

Wildflowers: FOTD Aug 27, 2023

 

This photo was taken in October on the way to Tapalpa. The flowers may not be as profuse this year because of the lack of rain. Perhaps I’ll go see!

For Cee’s FOTD