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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Frida Resumes Her Perch

Frida Resumes her Perch

If you have been around for awhile, you know about my dog Frida, who passed away in October, 27 months ago.  At that time, I published this poem in her memory: https://judydykstrabrown.com/2016/10/11/look-up-poem-for-a-good-good-girl/
which was about, among other things, her love of standing on the dome of my house and supervising the world about her. For two years, I fantasized about finding a dog similar to her and cementing it to the dome with her ashes inside so she could spend eternity in her favorite spot. Finally, I located what I thought was the right dog, and this is the story that followed:

Please click on photos to enlarge and read the captions.

Ironically, the day Gerardo and his brother were due to come permanently install Frida’s memorial, my cat of 18 years, Annie, finally grew so ill that I called the vet to come to the house to put her to sleep, and luckily Gerardo and brother didn’t make it, but came instead today. Somehow this reaching of the goal to memorialize Frida helped somewhat to dilute the sadness over Annie’s  departure. Plans are in the works for her memorial.  R.I.P. beloved friends.

Turning Star

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Virginia Creeper (formerly a mystery plant.)

Eileen at Write Here: Write Now identified my mystery plant as a Virginia Creeper. I have tons of them, but could not find one example of the flower, which is actually the casing around the berry opening up to let the berry out! Thanks so much, Eileen. You are today’s heroine.

 

For Cee’s Flower of the Day, Jan 29, 2020

Magic Circle

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Magic Circle

Pardon my astonishment that rhyme and allegory,
as well as words like firmament and comminatory—
billions of rules and concepts, laws and definitions,
as well as music, laughter, a mother’s hands, munitions,
all evolved from stardust—clouds and soil and lake,
bow tie, fingernail and love, liver and wedding cake.

Movie star and  surgeon, macho, bi and femme
evolved from cosmic particles that wanted to be them.
A baby’s cry and earwax. Ribald jokes and laughter,

all the plots and schemes and lies to get what we are after—
all were once identical and so they’ll be again,
as after our becoming, we go back to what we’ve been.

Prompts today are rhyme, allegory, astonishment, define and lake.

Aloe Sunset: FOTD Jan 28, 2020

This year a bumper crop in aloe blooms has been rivaled by spectacular sunsets. Here’s a dose of both.

For Cee’s FOTD Challenge.

Flimflam

 

Flimflam

It was a wretched theory. They postulated that
if we’d all collaborate, we’d lose all our fat.
They weren’t very subtle. They gave us tubes of stuff
to squeeze over the food we ate, but never quite enough.
We had to buy the second batch, and prices just kept rising.
Whereas we never lost a pound—a result not surprising.
Later, they skipped out of town—an act our friends found funny.
They told us from the first the only thing we’d lose is money!!!

Prompt words today are wretch, subtle, collaborate, postulate and tube.

Just 29 views away from my 775,000th View!!! Want to Help?

Unbelievably, We noticed a few days ago that I am approaching my 775,000th view. Little did I dream six years ago that it would lead to this..If you want to make it come true tonight, have a look!  Here are some blogs from the past:

This is my first post ever in March of 2013. It had five views: https://judydykstrabrown.com/2013/03/27/what-im-doing-here/

Here was one published a month later in April. It had eight views:
https://judydykstrabrown.com/2013/04/28/yellow-day-28-of-napowrimo/

And here is the post that earned the most views to date, on March 5, 2016. That day I got 4,559 views. More than I got my entire first year of blogging. So if you’re just starting out, don’t give up!!!!

https://judydykstrabrown.com/2016/03/05/sunset-beach-ballet/

Thanks for reading and commenting all these years.

Okay, made it! Thanks for helping. xoxoxoxo

 

Annie

Annie

My wild girl
gone so tame,
when repeatedly
you bleat

Now, Now, Now.
What is it

you ask for?
Perhaps

this planned sleep
after 18 

long years together?
There is

no way to meet
your demands

but one.
Good-bye
old friend.

Go to sleep.

 

 

FordVerse Poets Pub Quadrille Challenge: Wild

Unnamed

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Unnamed

Perhaps it was a blunder. He could be a stubborn mule.
A myriad of actions branded him a fool.
Scarce as they were, his virtues always managed to redeem him.
Some fools with little foresight even seemed to quite esteem him.
Still, a vulture is a vulture, and his dark side always won.
Self-serving minions always saved him when the day was done.
How do these soulless tyrants ever rise to power?
How long before he topples from his golden tower?

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Prompt words today are blunder, scarce, vulture, myriad and mule.

Newish Addition: Flower of the Day, Jan 27, 2020

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This lovely blushing hibiscus is one of the newest additions to my garden. This is only the second time it has bloomed. A nice surprise viewable from my new peanut patio!!!

 

For Cee’s FOTD

FOTD Jan 26, 2020

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The only thing prettier than a flower is a flower with raindrops. See Cee’s HERE.