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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Simple Beauties: FOTD Feb 2, 2019

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Sometimes simple is just right.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Also, see Cee’s fabulous anthurium HERE.

Not Dually Noted

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Not Dually Noted

He was an integral part of his community—
much more notable than either you or me.
With anything that mattered, he was associated.
His social calendar was full. Its pace never abated.

As they unrolled red carpets for notables to  enter,

he always made an effort to be there, front and center.
In short, he was ubiquitous—adept at being seen
in every newspaper column. In every magazine.

Yet when he slipped this mortal coil and reached the pearly gate,
standing at the back of lines became his final fate.

A shock, because the truth of it had not been very quotable:
In heaven, every denizen is considered notable!

 

The prompt words today were anything, integral and effort.

https://fivedotoh.com/2019/02/02/fowc-with-fandango-anything/
https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2019/02/02/integral/
https://ragtagcommunity.wordpress.com/2019/02/02/rdp-saturday-effort/

Fibbing Friday: Feb. 1, 2019

Here are my answers to this Friday’s questions:

  1. Jonah wasn’t swallowed by a whale…he was swallowed by ennui. 
  2. Who (or what) could make even the fiercest pirate quake in his boots? The dentist.
  3. What did Huckleberry Finn have to really paint?  Aunt Polly’s toenails.
  4. What is the best food that can be paired with red wine? Spam.
  5. What are you wearing on the sun? A sun bonnet.
  6. Why do dogs chase after cars? In hopes of a ride.
  7. What did the cat say to its kitten about the humans? “These creatures were created to be our servants, kids, but be polite to them. Otherwise, they may spit in the food!!”
  8. Goldfish are not fish. What are they? Misspelled adjectives describing  golf aficionados.
  9. What would you rather do instead of sleeping? Play loud music at 3 in the morning to wake up sleepers.
  10. The Phantom didn’t haunt the Opera House…he haunted the  Smart TV.
  11. What is the most intelligent life form on Earth? Cats.  (Had to tell the truth on this one.)
  12. Why did we really go to school? To get to the other side.
  13. What did teachers do during recess? Smoked doobies and played poker.
  14. How did you get to school? Pogo Stick and Parachute.
  15. What was life like before the Internet? It was a magazine back then as well.
  16. What is the best thing about social media? It is non-mandatory.
  17. What is your favorite thing to put chocolate sauce on? Pizza
  18. Doctors were all wrong…humans don’t need water. What do they need? Handi-wipe Pre-moistened Towels.
  19. Dolphins are not mammals. What are they? Those that aren’t mammals are poppals.
  20. There is a Lost Dutchman’s Mine, but where is it? In the Lost and Found.

 

 

 

 

For Fibbing Friday.  Here’s the link: https://thehauntedwordsmith.wordpress.com/2019/02/01/fibbing-friday-2/

Flower of the Day, Feb 1, 2019

 

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Another flower I’ve created from an egg carton. A simple one, this time.

For FOTD

Letting the Fish Guide the Way

 

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Letting the Fish Guide the Way

I have a side that is concise. It likes to plan and learn,
but it’s a side that I have found I sometimes have to spurn
to follow something else in me that doesn’t know quite where
it may next be going, and doesn’t really care.

Fate is a fish I follow: brilliant, sleek and swift.
It isn’t anything I’ve earned. It’s simply fortune’s gift.
If I give up and follow, the currents that it chooses
lead to healing waters that soothe my cuts and bruises.

I follow where it it leads me, sometimes swimming blind,
dealing with what ‘s dealt to me, working with what I find,
moving through life’s currents, living from day-to-day.
It works to turn the radar off. The fish can lead the way.

The prompt words today are fish, concise and learn. Thanks to my husband Bob whose line  in a poem “letting the fish guide the way” I have borrowed.

https://ragtagcommunity.wordpress.com/2019/02/01/rdp-friday-fish/
https://fivedotoh.com/2019/02/01/fowc-with-fandango-concise/
https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2019/02/01/learn/

“My Paint Brush Bites and Kicks!”

Another great film sent to me by my friend Gloria.  

Here is Gloria. She’s been hanging around on the beach with me for the past month but goes home in two days.

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And here is the uplifting, quirky, wonderful film she sent me. lf you need a lift to your day, have a look: 

https://www.theatlantic.com/video/index/580789/horse-artist/?utm_source=eb

Some Good Stuff for a Change

My friend Gloria sent me this in an email.  My eyes are still streaming tears. There are so many small and large acts of kindness we can do every day to have an influence on the world. I vow to do at least one today. Hope you might want to do the same. (Sorry, but I don’t know the original source. If you know, let me know and I’ll add an URL or acknowledgement.)

    There are still so many good people in our world that we hear so little about. 

 

This Is Anthony Borges,  He Used His Body To Hold A Classroom Door Shut During The Florida Shooting, Protecting 20 Other Students Inside As The Gunman Fired Through The Door, Hitting Him Five Times. May He Have A Speedy Recovery
This Is                                                           Anthony                                                           Borges, 15. He                                                           Used His Body                                                           To Hold A                                                           Classroom Door                                                           Shut During                                                           The Florida                                                           Shooting,                                                           Protecting 20                                                           Other Students                                                           Inside As The                                                           Gunman Fired                                                           Through The                                                           Door, Hitting                                                           Him Five                                                           Times. May He                                                           Have A Speedy                                                           Recovery
Firefighters In Arizona Putting Out A Mexican Fire over a wall
Firefighters                                                           In Arizona                                                           Putting Out A                                                           Mexican Fire
When You Reach 100 Years Old In Barbados, You Get A Stamp In Your Honour. Lovely
When You                                                           Reach 100                                                           Years Old In                                                           Barbados, You                                                           Get A Stamp In                                                           Your Honour.                                                           Lovely
A Middle School Started A “Breakfast With Dads” Program But Many Dads Couldn’t Make It And Several Students Didn’t Have Father Figures. The School Posted A Facebook Request For 50 Volunteer Fathers… 600 Fathers From All Backgrounds Showed Up
A Middle                                                           School Started                                                           A “Breakfast                                                           With Dads”                                                           Program But                                                           Many Dads                                                           Couldn’t Make                                                           It And Several                                                           Students                                                           Didn't Have                                                           Father                                                           Figures. The                                                           School Posted                                                           A Facebook                                                           Request For 50                                                           Volunteer                                                           Fathers... 600                                                           Fathers From                                                           All                                                           Backgrounds                                                           Showed Up
Every Morning My Father Places Bird Food In The Yard For My Mother To Wake Up On This View
Every                                                           Morning My                                                           Father Places                                                           Bird Food In                                                           The Yard For                                                           My Mother To                                                           Wake Up On                                                           This View
The Bride’s Father Died Ten Years Ago And His Heart Was Donated. The Man Who Received The Transplant Walked Her Down The Aisle
The                                                           Bride's Father                                                           Died Ten Years                                                           Ago And His                                                           Heart Was                                                           Donated. The                                                           Man Who                                                           Received The                                                           Transplant                                                           Walked Her                                                           Down The                                                           Aisle
“Life Gave Me The Gift Of You” – Marine’s 4 Year Old Son Cries Tears Of Joy After Hearing New Step-Mom’s Vows For Him
https://static.boredpanda.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/faith-in-humanity-restored-wholesome-happy-random-acts-of-kindness-175-5a8a97bdaf6b6__700.jpg
This Old Lady Goes To The Supermarket To Read Books All The Time So The Manager Put A Little Bench For Her
This Old                                                           Lady Goes To                                                           The                                                           Supermarket To                                                           Read Books All                                                           The Time So                                                           The Manager                                                           Put A Little                                                           Bench For Her
Pictures like these ease the anguish created by the 
current daily news.

Flower-Like, FOTD Jan 31, 2019

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These tiny coral growths on this palm-sized rock I picked up on the beach may not literally be flowers, but perhaps the moss qualifies.  At any rate, they are beautiful and flower-like. Had to share them.

See Cee’s gorgeous hellibore Here.

Stasis

 

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Stasis

At the zenith of her powers, the glamorous Ms. Z
knew well the art of camouflage. No one could really see
the heretic that lived inside the one in the first pew.
Not even her most loyal friends knew she was a Jew.

Times call for extreme measures, whatever might protect
and preserve us from dark powers, who if they detect
any threatening differences might decide to strike.
One yesterday thought “charming,” today just labeled “kike!”

What small differences between us do we all obscure?
What hidden denials must we all endure?
Convention is a schoolmarm with a ruler in her hand
ready to dish out punishment for any action banned.

One drop of blood not Aryan or thought that’s not mainstream,
any errant choice of style, any avant dream
might be grounds for action, for all good people know
the harm that comes from those who might upset the status-quo.

 

 

 

*kike is derived from the Hebrew word for circle, which is the mark many jews made on their immigration papers coming into America instead of an X for their signature.  Like many other racial slurs, it came from immigration officers who used it a s short-hand for a population group entering the country.

 

The prompt words today are camouflage, heretic, glamorous and zenith.

https://ragtagcommunity.wordpress.com/2019/01/31/rdp-thursday-camouflage/
https://fivedotoh.com/2019/01/31/fowc-with-fandango-heretic/
https://onedailyprompt.wordpress.com/2019/01/31/your-daily-word-prompt-glamorous-january-31-2019/
https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2019/01/31/zenith/

Another Beach Bloom: Flower of the Day, Jan 30, 2019

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Another egg carton flower

For Cee’s FOTD