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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

The Day They Opened the Laguna in La Manzanilla

In La Manzanilla, every year around this time, a trench is dug between the laguna that houses the crocodile and bird sanctuary and the ocean.  This allows the somewhat stagnant swamp water to run freely into the ocean, clearing out the still water and freshening the laguna.  For those of us on the beach, however, it creates a few days of foul odor and tides we have no desire to swim or fish in. It is a small price to pay for the freshening of the mangrove swamp, but still, a yearly process no one looks forward to.  Yesterday was the first day I witnessed the water running free this year.  I took a walk down the beach, and this is what I saw:

(Please click on first picture and subsequent arrows to see enlargements of photos and commentary.)

Mad Libs on a Timer

The Prompt: Turn to your co-workers, kids, Facebook friends, family — anyone who’s accessible — and ask them to suggest an article, an adjective, and a noun. There’s your post title! Now write.

Mad Libs on a Timer

Dear friends and kids and family, I guess it’s up to you
to kickstart a new blog entry that is half me, half you!
They say to give an article, I hope like “doll” or “door,”
for if they mean “a,” “an” or “the,” it really is a bore.
Then suggest an adjective that will be fun to bite on
as well as a noun that will inspire me to write on.

Today I’m going snorkeling. and leaving pretty quickly.
So if you do not provide words rather lickety-splickly,
I will not have the time to write my daily little rhyme.
If you’re reading this right now I pray you’ll take the time
to fire off three words to me and make them new and clever.
While I may be the rhyme machine, it’s you who pull the lever!!!

The first three words to come in: Coffee splendid saxophone. (Keep them coming. I’ll write as many as you send.)

Amateur

They say she played the saxophone.
While looking at the facts alone,
you’d think she played a splendid riff.
The truth? Her notes were rather stiff––
like chewing on a piece of toffee
when all you really want is coffee.

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/mad-libs/

Happy Birthday Marjorie Pauline

Marjorie Pauline is my very dear friend, fellow writer, enthusiastic walker and dance partner.  When I’m at the beach, she is the one who pulls me out to dance twice a week, and if she had her “druthers,” it would be three times. She has done the 500 mile Camino walk in Spain three times–including  last year, when she did it to celebrate her 80th birthday, so her daily 5 to 10 mile walks on the beach when she is in La Manzanilla are nothing in comparison.

Above all, she is a social person, so it came as no surprise when we went to her favorite dancing spot, Palapa Joe’s, to celebrate her 81st birthday on February 12, that a margarita was put in her hand the minute she walked in the door, that her favorite band member greeted her as “Mom” and that people started coming to the table with cards and gifts.  But when the band struck up a tune, all else faded away.  “C’mon, let’s dance!” she demanded and away we went to dance every dance where she wasn’t recruited by one or another male friend.

Yes, the band sang “Happy Birthday,” the kitchen staff presented her with a Hostess Cupcake birthday cake and friends presented gag gifts. But the best part of the entire evening for the birthday girl was, as always, the dance!!!!

(Click on first picture to view a slideshow of all photos in enlarged format with captions.)

 

 

A Bird in the Hand–Cee’s Flower of the Day, Feb. 18, 2016

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A Bird in the Hand

http://ceenphotography.com/2016/02/17/flower-of-the-day-february-18-2016-my-first-tulip-of-the-year/

Color Your World: Jazzberry

http://jennifernicholewells.com/2016/02/17/color-your-world-jazzberry-jam/

Keeping Secrets

 

Crowded Secret

This secret
shared with only you
has become crowded.

Like a party with too many guests,
it spills up the staircase
and into private rooms.

This secret with only room for two
has nudged you out of my confidence
as this one and this one and this one

crowd in to offer advice
just as though
they had been invited.

 

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/evasive-action/

In Safe Keeping

The Prompt: What’s the most significant secret you’ve ever kept? Did the truth ever come out?

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In Safe Keeping

What would be the sense of telling you my secret now
if in the past I’ve taken a very sacred vow
to never share it anywhere, with anyone at all?
Does WordPress now expect that I would seek to scale the wall
of confidentiality I’ve kept year after year?
They’re playing Devil’s advocate, but friends please have no fear.
You secret’s safe with me, for I have kept it all this time
and would not now reveal it for the price tag of a rhyme.
A secret is a secret and remains right here with me.
It is a pact between us, and forever it shall be.

 

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/evasive-action/

A Boy’s Story

It isn’t often that a boy finds such a receptive audience outside of his own family, but obviously, this boy had some story to tell! (Click on first photo to view all photos in enlarged view. When you get to last picture in this series, click on the black area to the right of the pictures and it will cause the second set of pictures that tell about Aedan’s adventure to appear.)

CLICK ON FIRST PHOTO BELOW TO SEE THE SLIDE SERIES AND READ ABOUT AEDAN’S BIG ADVENTURE.

 

 

Found Poem

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This morning I woke up as usual and lay in bed writing my poem, rose to take photos to go with it, then opened my front door so my upstairs neighbors could go through to the porch when they got home from breakfast.  When Cathy wandered in, she asked if I realized that I had a friend waiting on the beachfront porch.  Who was it, I asked and she said she didn’t know but she was singing.

I went out in my nightgown to see who it was and found a stranger–a singer/musician who had read my blog and come to meet me.  By the time I’d thrown clothes on, Fred–a slide guitar player who had been walking by  and heard her singing, had come to join her.  As the morning progressed, another woman wandered by on the beach.  Fred recognized her as a musician who lived on the same island as he in Canada, so he invited her to join us.  They ended up ordering breakfast from the cafe next door delivered to my porch.  I made coffee and they spent the morning.  Then Fred stayed to practice my “Ballad of Poor Molly” which he has set to music.  By 3 o’clock, he, too had left and I fell asleep on the couch and passed the rest of the afternoon napping–something I almost never do.  As I was waiting for my upstairs neighbors to come down to leave to meet friends for dinner, I wrote the first few stanzas of this poem.

Found Poem

One and two and three and four.
Four little music makers pounding on my door.
One beats a rhythm, one toots a horn––
wild and sweet––sort of forlorn.
One hums a tune behind her teeth––
a sort of descant underneath
the melody on the steel guitar.
The gulls reel in from near and far
to add their screams to the refrain,
then fan their wings, silent again.

Four musicians at my gate.
I wait for their music to abate.
Then I go and let them in
to add my music to the din.
I sing my lyrics fast and slow
first soft then loud, my lyrics go
up and over the drums and horn–
out into the sandy morn.
Over the rocks and out to sea,
setting all our music free.

When the drummer leaves my porch,
she leaves just three to loft the torch.
Too soon the horn, too, dies away,
but the hummer’s here to stay;
and steel guitar swells out to fill
the morning air until until
the morning bursts into full sun
and our melody comes undone.

Soon guitar and singer fade,
their morning share of music made,
and I fold my songs away.
I’ll bring them out some other day.
With music blown away, I wind
only words around my mind.
They weave their spell with me along.
I lose myself in their noisy throng.
Wander aimless, round and round,
in getting lost, this poem is found.

(You can see my “Ballad of Poor Molly” post HERE.)

Has Anyone Seen My Keys?

My Thingamajig

When I’m feeling you-know-what­­—
(that sort of panic in my gut)
I’d love to have a doohickey
with a backing that is sticky—

a whatchamacallit just for me—
bright orange, that I can easily see.
You know, some “thing”—some little widget
I can poke at with my digit

like the remote on my TV,
only this one’s just for me—
linked to my mind from A to Z,
a yellow page to memory.

It institutes a type of knowing
that reminds me where I’m going
when I head for my front door
and forget what I’m going for!!!!

The Prompt: World’s Best Widget––You’ve been granted magical engineering skills, but you can only use them to build one gadget or machine. What do you build?https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/worlds-best-widget/