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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Cee’s Share Your World, Week 1, 2016

Every week, Cee asks those who answer her prompt to answer several questions.  Here are my answers for this week:

As a child, who was your favorite relative?

I adored my Uncle Rob, although I probably only saw him 5 or 6 times in my life. He was my mother’s sister’s husband and although he was the state superintendent of schools, he had a goofy and fun sense of humor. His grandkids talked about him setting his farts on fire, although I can’t testify to the veracity of this potential slander! He used to send us boxes of books that had been sent to him to review as potential textbooks for the schools. Living in a tiny town where the closest library was 60 miles away, it was a real thrill to have those books at our disposal. The last time I had congress with him was six years after his death during a Ouija Board session in Australia. I think I’ve told of that in another blog.

If you could be a tree or plant, what would you be?

A huge oak tree with a kid’s treehouse in it.

Would you prefer to awaken before dawn or before noon?

I like to wake up about 8 or 8:30—so the daily prompt has been posted––then to lie in bed and do the prompt!!

Would you like to sleep in a human size nest in a tree or be snuggled in a burrowed spot underground?

A human sized nest in a tree. More interesting and less lethal creatures seem to hang out in trees and I’d have a great view.

What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

I am so grateful to my sister and brother-in-law for providing a wonderful Xmas and for my longtime friends Patty and Marti for flying in to spend it with us. In the week coming up, I’m looking forward to having Chino come to install the cabinets in the doggie domain so it will be easier to feed my critters!

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http://ceenphotography.com/2016/01/04/share-your-world-2016-week-1/

Family Portrait: Odd Ball Photo 2016 Week 1

Family Portrait

I very much wanted to get a nice portrait of this darling family at our club New Years party, and the mom seemed perfectly happy to oblige. The lighting wasn’t good, so I assumed there would be some problems, but . . .

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So big brother joined in the fun.  Mom still cute, isn’t she? And innocent.

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Finally, mom cottoned on to what was happening and tried to restore order.

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But I think she’s finally given up, don’t you?

http://ceenphotography.com/2016/01/03/cees-odd-ball-photo-challenge-2016-week-1/

Skyscape with Thunbergia: Flower of the Day, Jan 4, 2016

Skyscape with Thunbergia

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I loved this simple view of this tiny thunbergia against the blue sky.

 

To see Cee’s Iris and other floral offerings, go here: http://ceenphotography.com/2016/01/04/flower-of-the-day-january-4-2016-iris/

Blogomania

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Sun Goin’ Down on the Social Network!

Blogomania

Blog obsession? I tried to quit.
How did I get over it?
I psychoanalyzed myself,
then put my blog up on a shelf
and ventured out to have a life––
to be a girlfriend or a wife.
I went on social media,
put up with all its tedia
to try to find that special one
to have some extra-blogging fun.
I used my laptop not for blogging
but for romantic lollygogging.

And when I found a special one
who seemed intelligent and fun,
we wrote a bit and then, and then
I thought that I could blog again.
I confessed to him (with perfect diction)
my very slight blogging addiction.
He asked to read my blog and so
I told him just where he could go
to read me. Then I didn’t hear
from him again.  I thought it queer.

Finally, I asked him why
he’d let our conversation die.
He wrote back and that is when
he said I hadn’t time for men.
That if he wants more information,
he’ll simply get his daily ration
on my blog, then said good-bye.
And that is how I lost that guy.
Of future loves?  I had one fewer.
But at least I gained a viewer!!!

The Prompt: Happy Endings.  Tell us about something you tried to quit.  How did that turn out?
https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/happy-endings/

Color Your World: Antique Brass

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Apricot: Color Your World

Apricot

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To see other photos submitted for this challenge, look here: http://jennifernicholewells.com/2016/01/03/color-your-world-apricot/

Wound Around


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    (That’s a tiny banana he is holding up, by the way. Really. You can see the banana skin.)

Wound Around

Howe’er you wrap it––short or long,
it’s hard to beat a good sarong.
Easy to pack, easy to wear,
It hardly takes a bit of care.
If it;s been wound up in a wad,
just throw it o’er the curtain rod

and all the wrinkles will hang out.
Then when you wish to gad about,
just wind it tight around your frame.
Front and back are just the same;
so do not look to find a label,
just wind as well as you are able.

Women? Tuck your boobies in.
Going braless is no sin.
Slim or chunky, all will fit.
Just wind yourself inside of it.
Whether it’s two times around,
or only one, you’re tightly bound.

Then if as garment you abhor it,
there are other uses for it.
If decorating is your passion,
a sarong is much in fashion.
Just press it smooth as you are able
to cover up a chair or table.

At other times, it comes in handy
for it works just fine and dandy
as picnic cloth or bath towel or
mosquito shield over your door.
Use it to cover up your bed
or wind a turban ’round your head.

And when your head gear you unravel,
it serves as nightgown when you travel.
Swimsuit cover up or blanket,
however you may wind or yank it,
you simply cannot e’re go wrong
when you invest in a sarong!


The Prompt: New Sensation––Ah, sweet youth. No matter whether you grew up sporting a fedora, penny loafers, poodle skirts, bell-bottoms, leg-warmers, skinny jeans, Madonna-inspired net shirts and rosaries, goth garb, a spikey mohawk, or even a wave that would put the Bieber to shame, you made a fashion statement, unique to you. Describe your favorite fashions from days of yore or current trends you think are stylin’.
https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/new-sensation/

Round Up (WordPress Challenge: Circles)

Round Up

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https://dailypost.wordpress.com/photo-challenges/circle/

Ceiba Speciosa–Silk Floss Tree

                                                        Ceiba Speciosa–Silk Floss Tree

When I first published pictures of the flowers of this tree, I didn’t know its name, so I identified it as a Mexican Orchid Tree.

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At first, when the fruit appeared, I thought it must be a breadfruit tree:

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but later, when its very large pods started to burst open, revealing huge clumps of what looked like kapok–the material that was once used for packing material and to pad envelopes–I told a friend that it was a kapok tree.

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Today for some reason I was reminded that I’d meant to see if this was true and an hour’s research online finally earned me an answer.  Although it is not a kapok tree, it is related to it and the stuffing inside the large pods is often used as packing material as well as in the production of canoes, wood pulp and ropes.

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In addition, oil from its seeds may be used for both commercial and cooking purposes.

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All in all, a most intriguing tree.  I was so happy to have identified it that I drove through stop and go bumper-to-bumper weekend traffic to get these additional shots to thrill you all with my new knowledge.  You are thrilled, right???

What is the name of this tree and flower???? Ceiba Speciosa–Silk Floss Tree

To pingback your flower picture to the prompt or to see Cee’s or other flowers, go here: http://ceenphotography.com/2016/01/02/flower-of-the-day-january-3-2016-amaryllis-bud-flower-day-8/

Pointed Giants–For Olga

                                                   Pointed Giants–For Olga

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This is the art studio behind my house.  As you can see, it is rather overgrown with vines and other plants, despite the huge palm tree I just had cut down because they said it would interfere with the solar water heater coils soon to be installed.  So, that little scoop out of the roof overhang can be explained by the fact that I actually built my studio around the palm tree just to gain an extra foot of space without having to cut down a tree.  The trunk once occupied that scooped-out place.  If you look up by the electrical wires, though, you might notice a flash of red.  What is it?

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Here’s a closer view.  Almost smothered out by the thunbergia and other vines is this stubborn giant.  It was a small poinsettia houseplant given to me by a friend as a housewarming gift when I first moved to Mexico 14 years ago.  After Christmas that year, I planted it in the ground near my wall.  A few years later, I built the studio in front of it.  By then it was obscured by a large banana tree than afterwards died.  Hidden between my studio and the wall, it was long forgotten until  this year, when I suddenly noticed a flash of red peeking over the roof of my studio.

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It was my little poinsettia of 14 years ago, now grown into a very tall tree and surviving even though it has been practically choked out by thunbergia and the other hearty vine that grows over my wall.

See that wire running behind it?  that is a wire that either carries telephone messages or electricity to my house and beyond.  This pointed giant is in high company.

So that, Olga, is the story of how poinsettias are more that the symbol of Christmas that they are in El Norte.  Here in Mexico, they are just another subtropical plant that in this climate often grows into a tree–in spite of our best efforts to overlook them!