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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Lavender: Flower of the Day, Oct 8, 2017

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(Click on first image to enlarge all.)

See Cee’s orange lilies here: https://ceenphotography.com/2017/10/07/flower-of-the-day-october-8-2017-orange-lilies/

Pink Hibiscus: Flower of the Day, Oct 7, 2017

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Pink isn’t my favorite color, but I love this pink hibiscus I spotted in my friend Lety’s garden yesterday.

For Cee’s Flower Challenge.

Seven Day Challenge Redux

Aha!!  Having posted my seventh photo yesterday, I am no longer bound by the rules, so today I’m going to publish a collage of the seven photos and tell you how they relate to my life.  Hopefully the Gods of Photo Challenges will not take occasion to this act.  Here goes:

(If you click on the first photo, you can see them in a larger form and read the explanations of why I chose them to reflect my life.)

 

Cyber Romance

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Cyber Romance

Our affection is elastic, stretching from here to there.
My nightly kisses reach you through a thousand miles of air.
We have a date at 2 p.m., another at eleven
or twelve or one. It matters not. This freedom is just heaven.
No scrambling for a lipstick. No reaching for our combs.
No need to leave the comforts of our cozy homes.
No reservations must be made, no flowers to be bought.
No rashes to be suffered and no colds to be caught.
We are so safe here sheltered each in our favorite place
without expending energy meeting face-to-face.
It is a cyber romance—the newest thing to do.
And instead of having babies—one, perhaps, or two,
emojis I will give thee—as many as you please.
Life is so much simpler  lived out via screens and keys.

The prompt today was elastic.

Seven Day Challenge, Day 7

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Seven days, seven black and white photos that reflect your life. No people, no explanations. Invite someone else to join each day. Today I invite anyone reading this blog to join, but please put a link to your photo in my comments so others may see your photo!!!

Hibiscus in Daylight: Flower of the Day, Oct 6, 2017

 

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This is the same hibiscus I showed a night shot of two nights ago. Who needs diamonds or yachts when she can have a flower like this constantly blooming to enjoy every morning?

 

For Cee’s challenge.

Genius

 

The Genius of Choice

I do not crave a sylphlike form.
Mere gorgeousness is not the norm
If I seek to build my ego up,
I do not need a 4D cup—
the back strain nor the stares and gawking.
The genius of a Stephen Hawking?
I do not want it, seek it not;
and I would not wish to be caught
inside a Porsche or Aston Martin.
Joy’s not packaged in a carton
large nor small. No jewels seek I.
No diamonds sparkle in my mind’s eye.
I do not envy your honor student.
Your sex life I just find imprudent.
I covet not thy ox nor ass,
thy husband nor thy backstage pass.
There’s just one thing I’m thirsting for.
If I had it, I’d need no more.
I guess I’ll tell the truth, y’all.
What do I want? I want it ALL!!!!

 

The prompt today was genius. (This is an edited version of a poem formerly published in 2014 under a different name.)

Cee’s Odd Ball Photo Challenge: Home Delivery

For those who just hate shopping for shoes—home delivery with custom fitting:

 

 

For: https://ceenphotography.com/cees-challenges/cees-odd-ball-photo-challenge/

Cruising Ocampo.: Thursday Doors, Oct 5, 2017

I love driving the cobblestones between Seis Esquinas and Rio Bravo.  Here’s a bit of what you’d see if you were to cruise along with me. Please click on the first photo to enlarge them all and wait a few seconds for them to focus:

 

 

 

 

For more doors, look here: https://miscellaneousmusingsofamiddleagedmind.wordpress.com/2017/10/05/thursday-doors-october-5th-2017/

Fashionable

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Everything Old is New Again

To dress passé? A fashion sin,
yet everything old is new again.
So if your dress length’s out of date,
all you have to do is wait.
In twenty years, you’ll be in vogue,
in what last year marked you a rogue.

Who dictates fashion is beyond me,
as are those who wait to see
whether ankle, thigh or knee
is where a garment’s end should be
and whether cowl or boat or vee
is the right neckline for a tee

they tuck into their faded jeans—
now ripped and shredded like dumpster queens.
Following fashion’s every word?
I fear I find it most absurd.
I want the knees left in my jeans,
my butt well-covered, by all means.

What clothes you wear should be your passion,
not merely what’s okayed by fashion.
There should be no laws or rules
regarding clothes or hats or jewels
except what shows us who you are.
Each woman her own runway star.


Living up to its title, this poem is a rewrite of an earlier post. The prompt today was fashionable.