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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Invaders: Flower of the Day, Oct 6, 2018

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These tiny little blue-flowered creepers are taking over in my lawn, but somehow I can’t complain.  So pretty.

For Cee’s Flower of the Day.

A Guy Called Bloke’s Questions of the Week.

Please note: I’ve spent over an hour on this question and have an appointment I need to get to so don’t have time to change my answers to a different font. All of the questions are given below, and then my answer is there as well.

Daily Topic Subject – The Beauty of Great Music

Q1] How important is music in your life? Very important. I can’t imagine a life without music.

Q2] What is most favourite type of music and what is your least favourite? Most favorite is folk rock/rockabilly. My least favorite is rap.

Q3] Do you own a music collection or do you simply listen to whatever on whatever? I still have all my old 45’s and LP’s in addition to cassettes, CD’s and MP3’s and an iPod with about 700 songs on it–all sent to me by a friend who is a real music connoisseur. I mainly listen to that MP3’s contents over and over.

Q4] Are you a singer, a hummer or a whistler? Whistler and hummer.  Drives my sister crazy.

PQ5] Show through links your five best songs?

I and Love and You, Avett Bros.
One Voice,  Wailin’ Jennys
Snowin’ on Raton, by Townes Van Zandt (Performed by Gretchen Peters and Tom Russell)
Midnight on Raton, Eliza Gilkyson
Here in California, Kate Wolf

Q6] Have you ever been to an outdoor concert? Yes

PQ7] Do you ever go out to listen to music live? When was the last time you went to a concert/gig? Last week..improv jazz which I usually don’t like, but it was fabulous.

Q8] Do you sometimes feel like dancing when you hear music? Under what circumstances do you dance? Yes.  I’ll dance if asked

Q9] When do you listen to music? While having a massage, when in my house and not writing.  Sometimes while writing.

Q10] If you answered yes to Questions 6 & 7 – who did you go and see? He was an old jazz artist visiting Mexico with a wonderful young Mexican jazz combo–guitars, sax, bass, piano, clarinet, two drummers.

Q11] Is there a song that makes you emotional? ”

PQ12] Do you feel that you have a special connection with some types of music? Which types?

Q13]  Have you ever tried singing in a karaoke bar? What was the experience like?

Q14] Do you listen to music when writing? If so which? “Romance” played at the first concert I went to after my husband died. I had to go outside for awhile afterwards. It was the song the guitarist played at our wedding as I came into the courtyard.  Always makes me cry.”

PQ15] Have you even gone to see a musical? What was it, provide link please. Yes. Spamalot, The Wedding Singer, Fiddler on the Roof, many others–too many to list (and to be truthful, I’m blocking on the names.).

Q16] Do you know the lyrics to all the songs you like? No. The ones from my youth, yes.

Q17] When you are listening to music – are you listening just to the music itself or the lyrics too? Lyrics.

Q18] Do you listen to music when you go cycling/jogging or when you’re working out at the gym? [or any other physical activity] I listen to recorded books at these times.

Q19] Many operas are in French, Italian or German. If you listen to opera, do you understand the libretto (text) or are you happy to get the gist (main idea)? I like to know the libretto.

PQ20] Are you deleting any questions, if so which ones? It has taken forever to find links to the songs so I’m giving up.  Hopefully forgottenman will provide them as he’s the one who introduced me to most of these songs. (Update by forgottenman: Yep, done.)

Q21] Do you enjoy watching music videos? What sort of music videos do you enjoy most? I don’t watch many music videos. I love “The Voice” and watch every episode.

If you want to play along, here is the link to Bloke’s blogsite:
 https://aguycalledbloke.blog/2018/10/04/game-on-series-2-the-beauty-of-great-music/

Futile Advice

Futile Advice

Truck trials are enigmatic. I just can’t see their appeal.
Big boys ruining their toys? I want to say, “Get real!”
If one of your life pleasures is to buy things and deplete them,
just buy some triple-decker cones and take them out and eat them!
It’s bound to be much cheaper and it makes a lot less noise,
but I know that you won’t listen. After all, boys will be boys.

 

The prompt words today are truck, trial, enigmatic and deplete. Here are the links:
https://ragtagcommunity.wordpress.com/2018/10/05/rdp-friday-truck/
https://fivedotoh.com/2018/10/05/fowc-with-fandango-trial/
https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/10/05/enigmatic/
https://dailyaddictions542855004.wordpress.com/2018/06/06/welcome-to-daily-addictions/deplete

Bougainvillea: Flower of the Day, Oct 5, 2018

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For Cee’s Flower of the Day.

Gilt Trip

 

 

Not much of a “gilt” person, I searched my photo library in vain for a half hour before suddenly remembering the Opera House in Guanajuato.  Pay dirt!!!! Lots of gold.  Click on any photo to enlarge all!

For Nancy’s Prompt–“Gilded.”

Driving Lesson

Driving Lesson

Brace yourself for lamp posts. Do not vacillate changing lanes.
That panic you feel turning corners very quickly wanes.
For each 10 miles of your speed, stay a car length back
to make it much less likely a bumper you will crack
when the car in front of you makes a sudden stop.
Anticipate fast braking, and avoid the traffic cop!

These rules aren’t too difficult, in fact they’re common sense.
When you see your instructor growing rather tense,
decrease your speed and check that you are driving center lane.
Checking your makeup in the rear vision mirror is inane!
Indicate your turning and brake for traffic lights.
Minding all the rules just makes for fewer fights.

I’m sure that if you follow them you’ll soon be driving regally.
It’s so much easier to drive when you’re driving legally!

The word prompts today are brace, lamppost, vacillate and anticipate.  Here are the links:

https://ragtagcommunity.wordpress.com/2018/10/04/rdp-thursday-brace/
https://fivedotoh.com/2018/10/04/fowc-with-fandango-lamppost/
https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/10/04/vacillate/
https://dailyaddictions542855004.wordpress.com/2018/09/29/daily-addictions-2018-week-39/anticipate

Flower of the Day, Oct 4, 2018

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Had to crop this to include the grasshopper.  Can you see him?

For Cee’s Flower of the Day.

Another Bloomin’ Aloe! — Flower of the Day, Oct 3, 2018

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For Cee’s Flower of the Day prompt.

If Only

 


If Only

When I am in traffic and I’m cut off by some jerk
who makes me miss that long light that makes me late for work,
I imagine cutting him off at some future light;
and when he catches up to me, spoiling for a fight,
mouthing a nasty tirade that puts me in my place,
I’ll have a scintillating comeback to spew into his face.

 

The prompt words today are comeback, traffic, scintillating, tirade. Here are the links to their prompt sites:
https://ragtagcommunity.wordpress.com/2018/10/03/wednesday-rdp-comeback/
https://fivedotoh.com/2018/10/03/fowc-with-fandango-traffic/
https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/10/03/scintillating/
https://dailyaddictions542855004.wordpress.com/tirade

There’ll be a Change in the Weather

Well, the temperature today was a tad nippy, but so hot inside the stores where we shopped that I didn’t wear a coat. Inside of one minute’s time tonight, however, both my brother-in-law here in Sheridan, Wyoming  (via the weather channel on his phone) and forgottenman in Missouri (via Skype) informed me there’ll be a change in the weather here tomorrow.  Here is forgottenman’s message!

“High of 54 tomorrow morn in Sheridan, Wyoming, where you now are. Then the north wind kicks in. By mid-afternoon sparrows will be dropping outta the sky, froze solid. Small children in schoolyards are next. Skinny bellicose drunk cowboys trying to roll a cig on the range – well, they’ll drop near sunset.”

Wouldn’t he have made an entertaining weather man?