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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Roundabout

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Roundabout

When we were younger, we all were amused
as my mom steadily grew more confused––
losing her keys and her glasses and purse.
Each year of her life, it seemed to get worse.
At tax time she snorted, she fussed and she stewed
as her simple receipts she sorted and viewed.
One thing at a time was all she could do.
She grew somewhat flustered when confronted with two.
It was a puzzle for those forced to view it.
With much less to do, she took longer to do it.

But now as my seventies get so much nearer,
what my mother faced is getting much clearer.
Once a multi-task wizard, I find even two
tasks at one time are too much to do.
When on the computer I now have to think
to accomplish functions once done in a blink.
The names of close friends I now search my brain for.
What once came so easily, I must now strain for.
I still have my memory—try to believe it.
It just takes me longer to sort and retrieve it.

When it comes to time limits, I just confuse myself.
In games like Trivia, I must recuse myself.
The end of my stories I’m often delaying,
for I can’t recall what I started out saying.
When I finally remember why I came to town,
I’ve forgotten the list where I carefully wrote down
all of my errands and then what is worse,
when I get back home, they are there in my purse!
I’m glad I’ve no kids with whom I can share
or they’d already have me in memory care.

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/confused/

Written on the World

 

Four of the photos above were taken in Los Agaves Mexican Restaurant in Sheridan, Wyoming.  I agree with the sentiments of the child whose drawing adorned the entrance hall of the restaurant!  The old mill pictured has become a hotel.  The only photo not of Sheridan is the Conoco/Subway sign which, although ubiquitous, just seemed to have a special old-fashioned aura to me.  Perhaps it is the prairie backdrop or the faded paint.  It was taken in South Dakota near where I grew up.

Here are some addition “written word” photos that I’ve published rather recently on my blog but couldn’t leave them out of this prompt!!!

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and be consoled by signs assuring you you are still on the correct path.

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https://wheresmybackpack.com/2016/08/12/travel-theme-writing/

Yellow Dahlia: Flower of the Day, Aug. 15, 2016

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Seems we’re on a Dahlia kick! Love the color of this one.

https://ceenphotography.com/2016/08/14/flower-of-the-day-august-15-2016-dahlia/

Sunday Trees Challenge 2016/08/14

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There is something about this photo of a tree peeking over my sister’s neighbor’s roof that I just like.  Perhaps it is the cloud’s echo of the tree’s shape, or the juxtaposition of the nearly horizontal hard straight line of the eaves trough to the softer vertical shapes of the tree and cloud.. or just the colors.  More likely a combination of all of these elements.

For more trees, visit this site: https://beccagivens.wordpress.com/2016/08/14/sunday-trees-248/

Dahlia: Flower of the Day Aug 14, 2016

 

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A surprise when I went down on a photo expedition in my garden this morning. I’ve never had this color of dahlia in my garden before. I guess it is another example of chaos theory!!


https://ceenphotography.com/2016/08/13/flower-of-the-day-august-14-2016-dahlia/

Complicated by Nature

Complicated by Nature

I find my mind keeps spinning until my brain grows weary
ever since I foolishly googled “chaos theory.”

While fatalists declare the world caught up in its rut,
the chaos theorists have theories I cannot rebut

wherein each thing duplicated differs from the last
because of other factors than the mold from which they’re cast.

And suddenly I have excuses for each thing I do.
Why my cake has fallen, and why my bras turned blue

the last time that I washed them the detergent was the same,
and yet something perhaps had changed–chaos theory is to blame!!!

Each snowflake varies from last, each flower is unique.
It seems that our creator demands a bit of tweak

in everything created. Chaos affects  everything.
I guess that Mother Nature wants to keep it interesting!!!

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/complicated/

Toadie Came a Courtin’: Thursday Doors, Aug 11, 2016

IMG_3182I don’t know how this little guy got inside my locked screen door and three feet up on the crossbar, but he did.  The space between the screen door and the glass door seems too small for him to have been able to jump up. This is the third tiny toad like this that i’ve found on the crossbars of slider screens or doors.  They are exactly the color of the paint, so must feel hidden and safe.  Hope they are catching flies!  I relocated him to a planter box as this door is used too much for him to be safe and the kitty lurked just a few feet away. The ledge he was on was 1/2 inch deep, so I’m sure he couldn’t be over an inch long.  Tiny little guy.

And, so you can get an idea of scale and also because this posting is supposed to be about doors, after all, here is an inside and outside shot of the screen door that was his resting place as well as the planter with rosemary plant that I relocated him to:

You can click on the first picture if you want larger views.

https://miscellaneousmusingsofamiddleagedmind.wordpress.com/2016/08/11/thursday-doors-august-11-2016/

 

To Reach for is Not To Reach

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When fate makes a fissure, we’ve three ways to go.
One is acceptance, another is woe.
But the third is to shatter the old status quo
by using the break as a window to show
a new direction where we may go
to learn what before we had no way to know.
What makes a man’s life is what’s beyond his reach.
Why stop at a wall when you could make a breach?
What today is impossible may be the goal
for a man with a chisel who carves out a hole.

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https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/reach/

Thunbergia: Flower of the Day, Aug 13, 2016

I think these Thunbergias look like they have been ripped out of paper.

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https://ceenphotography.com/2016/08/12/flower-of-the-day-august-14-2016-hibiscus/

Fun!

 

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This is my niece Lainie who is a comedian and lots of fun.  Can’t you just tell that from this photo?

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/photo-challenges/fun/