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About lifelessons

My blog, which started out to be about overcoming grief, quickly grew into a blog about celebrating life. I post daily: poems, photographs, essays or stories. I've lived in countries all around the globe but have finally come to rest in Mexico, where I've lived since 2001. My books may be found on Amazon in Kindle and print format, my art in local Ajijic galleries. Hope to see you at my blog.

Loving Lee

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Loving Lee

She was not the easiest one
to be around, but she was fun.
Her wit was sharp, also her tongue.
And yet, I counted her among
those dearest if not nearest to me.
It was she who chose to woo me
with books she thought me ready for
filled with strange and heady lore
of living by my intuition
through which I came to my fruition.
My whole life was changing then,
Buscaglia and Jung and zen.
I’d moved west and changed my thinking,
took up pot and gave up drinking,
decided that my thoughts on men
needed revising. Only then
did life straighten out for me—
and part of it was meeting Lee.
She read my poems, studied my art.
I dodged her tongue and won her heart.
As she won mine; yet other friends
rejected her sincere amends,
’til I was one of two or three
who chose to let our friendship be.
Yes. It was, I must confess,
because I saw her less and less.
When I moved off to Mexico,
our intercourse was rare and slow.
The one last trip I took her on,
quickly, truth began to dawn.
Her memory span had grown so thin
that barely did a thought begin
before it came around again
to the place where we’d just been.
Sometimes our world leaves bit by bit
until we are well rid of it
Not so the friends who leave us slow.
We still aren’t ready to let them go.
My world was better for loving Lee,
but with these lines, I set her free.

The WordPress prompt today was lovingly. I chose a slightly different approach to the word.

Tenacatita Driftwood: Sunday Trees 273

Lots of coral washed ashore at coral beach, Tenacatita, Mexico, as well as this beautiful big tree. Lest you think it is a mere tumbleweed, I’ve included another photo to show its scale.

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Posted for Becca’s Sunday Tree prompt.

Nosegays: Flower of the Day, Feb 5, 2017

These lovely little nosegays were gracing the commode in a new little restaurant across the street opened by three young people.  The food is gourmet, the trip up the creaky wooden stairs a bit perilous and my friend complained that the red wine had been refrigerated, but these little potty posies in toilet paper vases were so charming that they were the photo I had to take.

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https://ceenphotography.com/2017/02/04/flower-of-the-day-february-5-2017-daisy/

Handcrafted

Last week I showed my work at the La Manzanilla art walk.  Since my pieces are all hand-crafted, I decided they would work well for today’s prompt of “craft.” I brought jewelry because Morrie took up the space the retablos would have occupied.  The found art pieces are all composed of elements found on either La Manzanilla beach or La Ribera beach in Baja.

Click on first photo to enlarge them all and view as a gallery.

The prompt word today was craft.

The Win

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The Win

When you reach out for the prize,
please be sure you recognize
that chaos can adopt the guise
of a much-wished-for surprise.
Bad things can come in lovely trappings,

so when you remove the wrappings,
what you might find wrapped inside
is something they have had to hide
lest you know the ugly truth.
A close-lipped smile can hide the tooth
that bites the hand that votes for it.
How can we once again permit
such evil to come into power?
This time we cannot hide or cower.
Brave men and women must stir their bones—
leave their screens, forsake their phones,
to come back to reality.
See how much worse the world could be.
Environment an oozing shambles
while big business wrecks and gambles.
Brother turned against his brother,
all the world blaming the other.
Misogyny, racism and
a lack of respect for the land—
what will these concepts lead us to?
Democracy is now a zoo.
Polluted rivers, polluted skies,
will prove the truth some recognize.
In forgetting our forefathers’ goals,
we’ve let big business buy our souls.
Lately foolish, please now be wise.
Please, countrymen, open your eyes.
Your children sicken, your grandchild cries.
Please save his country before it dies.
It is time to recognize
these words do not hyperbolize.
Now is the time to change and wake up.
Our country’s factions need to make up!

The prompt today was recognize.

Solitude

The beach makes solitude look good!

Please enlarge photos by clicking on the first photo.

 

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/photo-challenges/solitude/

Flower of the Day, Feb 4, 2017: Heliconia

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Another day, another variety of Heliconia

Flower of the Day – February 4, 2017 – Dahlia

Inner/Outer: Cee’s Fun Foto Challenge

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Our inner and outer worlds are so connected that it is often hard to separate them.  For each outer, there is an inner, and to depict one without the other is often impossible.

Click on first photo to enlarge all and read captions.

Posted for Cee’s Inner/Outer Challenge

Candelaria and Rodeo: Cee’s Black and White Challenge––Music

Candelaria and Rodeo

The wild parade with band that marks the opening of rodeo week was supposed to start at seven but finally passed at 9:30.  It was no problem at all as we were at Lora Loka’s listening to these three fabulous musicians/singers.  Tamales, chile, sopes, pozole and atole plus excellent company.  Ahhhhhh.  Mexico is one big celebration.  Parties or free dinners sponsored by different politicians, the ejido or private individuals every day and/or night.  Guess this isn’t the week I’ll get caught up on my sleep.

Click on first photo to enlarge all.

https://ceenphotography.com/2017/02/02/cees-black-white-photo-challenge-music/

Ginger Flower Macro: Flower of the Day, Feb 3, 2017

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For Cee’s flower, look HERE.